I checked my own cervix when it was getting close to my due date. It's not hard as long as you can reach it. It feels like a "rubber band" in there and depending on how many fingers you can insert into the "rubber band" thing is what you use to determine how many cm it's at. Let me see if I can find what I used to learn
@shaneen32, they said bc the pain wasn't coming and going then it probably wasn't contractions
@shaneen32, they told me there was no point in coming in
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
How can you tell how dilated you are