Relationship issue::need advice::.. Im laying next to my man and yet i feel so alone... Hes real distant. I been rubbing my belly and he aint even acted like he gives a crap that i seen the baby move inside me.. From the outside u figure thatd be a shared enjoyment for a couple expecting their first child. But hes holding the fact i made a friend threw my parenting class today but see he flipped out that i didnt answer my phone in the middle of the tiny bit of time i get out of the house which it was the first time in over 2 months... And he was pissed cuz i didnt answer and hes taken it out on me all day yet he forgot his phone befor work and i wadnt able to text that i was going to lunch i mean my gosh im sober and trying to surround myself with positive influances... And he is getting pissy cuz i made one friend...yet he goes and hangs with his friends all the time. And when i was on my way home he called and said if i didnt get home in 10mins he was leaven an not giving a shot what i thought... I mean im hi risk pregnacy and i got so much stress already and him doing this is kinda making me feel like he really don't care bout me or the baby... Im so miserable questioning if he even cares any more because hes getting distant and more distant... I feel like im alone even tho hes next to me the only thing thats bringing me comfort is holding my stomach feeling my baby move and swish around in there... I just wanna cry.. I really do..
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@h_mother0322 thats comforting... Just see his me time is going to either his bosses and drinking then coming home and treating me more like shit or him on porn. He never will just go hang with his friends unless they have a gurl thats gonna be there then he purposly rubs it in... I told him sorry more then 5x last nite it got to the point where he got up to go get beer and my mom had to jump in and bring it to his attention that is that the example u really wanna set for ur kid is that everytime u get in a pinch sor disagreement u either up an leave state or grab alcihol and get drunk
.. So i was the bigger person cuz it turned into a big arguement in the living rm. Because he left the rm i asked him to please letme sleep cuz unlike him i got to be up at 530am and its already past midnite. Well he comes in and throws my keys he used real hard at me and woke me up it pissed me off because when he has work i never bother him even when its a dam emergency i leave him be. But im just gonna start focusing on the baby and me. Not him. Like i told him last nite cuz he got all moody saying I'm taking something thatll hurt the baby which was tylonal extra strength ok so i told him befor i walked out of the rm. I asked how can he just care one minute an not give a dam the next. Then i brought up how stress is 10x as deadly an dangerous then tylonal is and he seems not to care. Then he said this dont concern the baby this concerns why u didnt answer ur dam phone. So i jus said ya well i can say sorry only.so much but i aimt gonna kiss ur ass and then i walked out of the living rm and went and slept alone. Then he came in few hrs later and amazingly he didnt purposly wake me up i woke up to pee. But he didnt speak or look at me. I feel like i need to start making decisions that exclude him Nd include the baby. Cuz men come and go a child stays no matter what. Im gonna focus on me an my child. Cuz in the end thats all ill have. And its unhealthy for me to be stressed thanks hun
Sometimes you have let it go & do what’s best for you and the baby. My bf has a lot times where he try take his angry out on me but I cut him off & go about my business. Tell him text me when he has had his me time. Not finna be miserable crying over the person that got me pregnant. I declared my self a happy pregnancy for the rest of my pregnancy because I be damn I stress my self out to the point where my body not functioning right because of my emotions. It’s hard with these hormones but Best Way I find deal with it, is music & my babies.
Talk to him and tell him the problem if he doesn't then that means he doesn't care and let his ass go easier said than done yes I know but you don't need any extra stress he shouldn't ever be threatening to leave you
focus on the baby and your health not on him go to a shelter if u need to or move
Thanks every1 for the advice