trying to figure out the holidays because my boyfriends mother and my father do not get along. having them in the same room makes everything awkward & on top of it all both families are very different. do i just spend one holiday with his family then the other with mine? or do i try to make time for both on all holidays?
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@kkmamax3, thank you someone that finally agrees i just hope my bf and me agree on something because if not i won’t do anything
It is a shame. Like they are adults! Sit at different table if you don’t like someone
@kkmamax3, that’s a shame i think everyone should get along for the kids. my dad normally never goes out so he won’t go to the birthday party but i do want to cut her a cake on her birthday i just knw if i invite my BF family it’ll be an issue and if i dnt invite them he doesn’t want me doing anything
@lovee.n, girl I wish the same thing every year. My girls don’t have birthday parties cause it just sucks for them. Like my youngest daughters 1st birthday, they ended up in a huge fucking fight like punching each other!
@kkmamax3, i wish they got along but they don’t and i’m in the middle constantly trying to please both im hoping something changes for her birthday in january but highly doubt it
@lovee.n, oh yeah that can be tuff. We used to do 4 different Christmases 😳 a few hours at everyone’s house. But I’m not doing that anymore.
@kkmamax3, i wish it was so simple we live with my parents so it’s harder than it sounds
@momof3and1otw, im going to see if we can agree on something but having them in the same house will not work
I have this same problem.. so we don’t go anywhere. We stay home and do our own thing. If adults can’t get along for children, I don’t want my kids around.
I dont have that exact problem. But my sisters extended family wont come to us so we go to them for each holiday. Usually we end up having 2 thanksgivings and at least 3 christmases
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Does the doctor need consent from both parents to do a circumcision or just one? I don't want my boyfriend and his mother to try and do this behind my back while I'm all groggy
The one thing I wanted to be able to do with and for my daughter, I can’t seem to do without the help of a LC... I can’t seem to get her to latch like they do and all my family is telling me to do is switch to formula.. I can’t help but cry at the thought of all of this...
Work?
What do you all,do for work? Or how does,your family make money generally?
Does anyone else do themes for there baby? I am currently obsessed with elephants and chevron and all of his things have one or the other some have both. My hubby and family find it ridiculous I do this every time...I can't be the only one can i?
@lovee.n, next year for my oldest daughter, we are going to sea world. Just us.