trying to figure out the holidays because my boyfriends mother and my father do not get along. having them in the same…
trying to figure out the holidays because my boyfriends mother and my father do not get along. having them in the same room makes everything awkward & on top of it all both families are very different. do i just spend one holiday with his family then the other with mine? or do i try to make time for both on all holidays?
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@lovee.n, next year for my oldest daughter, we are going to sea world. Just us.
Nitza 👑·
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@kkmamax3, thank you someone that finally agrees i just hope my bf and me agree on something because if not i won’t do anything
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It is a shame. Like they are adults! Sit at different table if you don’t like someone
Nitza 👑·
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@kkmamax3, that’s a shame i think everyone should get along for the kids. my dad normally never goes out so he won’t go to the birthday party but i do want to cut her a cake on her birthday i just knw if i invite my BF family it’ll be an issue and if i dnt invite them he doesn’t want me doing anything
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@lovee.n, girl I wish the same thing every year. My girls don’t have birthday parties cause it just sucks for them. Like my youngest daughters 1st birthday, they ended up in a huge fucking fight like punching each other!
Nitza 👑·
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@kkmamax3, i wish they got along but they don’t and i’m in the middle constantly trying to please both im hoping something changes for her birthday in january but highly doubt it
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@lovee.n, oh yeah that can be tuff. We used to do 4 different Christmases 😳 a few hours at everyone’s house. But I’m not doing that anymore.
Nitza 👑·
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@kkmamax3, i wish it was so simple we live with my parents so it’s harder than it sounds
Nitza 👑·
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@momof3and1otw, im going to see if we can agree on something but having them in the same house will not work
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I have this same problem.. so we don’t go anywhere. We stay home and do our own thing. If adults can’t get along for children, I don’t want my kids around.
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I dont have that exact problem. But my sisters extended family wont come to us so we go to them for each holiday. Usually we end up having 2 thanksgivings and at least 3 christmases