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Need to vent/talk: had court today. After receiving the recommendation from court in September, it's been going towards…

Need to vent/talk: had court today. After receiving the recommendation from court in September, it's been going towards trial because sperm donor can't/won't agree or compromise on anything. We have a new placement schedule where the 4 week days (Monday through Thursday) are split and we rotate weekends. I live 2.5-3 hours from sperm donor. We meet for exchanges at a place that is not half way in either miles or time. 3 days each week now, Patrick is going to be spending 6 hours on those days in the car. In sperm donors car, Patrick is in a FORWARD facing car seat. Last time I picked him up, SD also had a jacket on him. I have sent him so much literature and notes expressing my concerns about this and not the court appointed social worker, GAL or attorneys give a shit. This is now getting stretched out until March of next year and then possibly trial. Oh yeah, and my judge has a thing against me. Grrr 🐊

All this stuff on my old Facebook and I can't get on it. I have messages on there from Tinleys sperm donor that I need for court and can't get them. &&a before someone makes a comment about me calling him a sperm donor, he really is! He hasn't been around since I was almost 15 weeks. When we were told that we were having a girl is when he was done with me and Tinley!

Trigger. Our precious boy

Trigger. Our precious boy Last night, December 8th, 2015, at 9:58pm, our sweet precious baby boy was born sleeping. We spent 5 wonderful hours with him: holding him, talking to him, singing to him, mourning him, praying for him, and weeping over him.

okay so my sperm donor doesn't want anything to do with me or my daughter should I put him on child support ?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

Tell me if I'm wrong... So we see my SO son on sats for 3 hours we live in wixom but we have to drive an hour to get him…

Tell me if I'm wrong... So we see my SO son on sats for 3 hours we live in wixom but we have to drive an hour to get him and take him to his moms that lives about a half hour away from where we pick him up to be there for an hour then turn around and drop him back off then drive an hour back home. But I have to stay home with the baby because I don't want him in the car seat that long. I wanna go I wanna see his son and I want both the baby's to get used to each other and have him get used to me because eventually we will get full custody of him. I'm upset about the situation because I will be careing for his son when he works so I want him to be conterable with me and I won't if I can never go. So I asked him nicely if we can work something else out so its easier for all of us and I don't get left out and the baby doesn't have to suffer in the car that long and all he says is I don't wanna loose the chance to get full custody of him but you need to think of the rest of your family also. You want to leave your son with me when I would kinda be a complete stranger to him. Ive been around him a few times and we all played but he needs to get to know me more.