Trying to plan who I want in the room when I deliver is so stressful I thought it was three now it’s only two 😩

@db413, yea that’s also very true ! I told my mom they can be in there until it’s time to push but my best friend is taking pictures and I just personally would rather her be in there

@tkharlow33, I’d rather have both mad at me for picking my best friend then one mad at me for having to miss the birth of my child.

@db413, I’m glad I’m not the only one who thinks this

@tkharlow33, not selfish at all. You care for your sisters and don’t want to hurt either one of them.

@db413, that’s what my plan is and my older sister thinks it’s selfish

@tkharlow33, that’s what my sister was there for. But my bf ended up not being able to stay in the room due to he was gunna pass out. 😂 if anything have your best friend so you don’t have to pick one sister.

@db413, I want pictures tho

@tkharlow33, the less people the better. Let everyone else come in after your all cleaned up. Just have your mom there for support.

I take 2 ppl, that's all we get anyways. Dad for one leg and grandma for the other lol

@shaneen32, 2

@courtney.welsh, it’s hard since I’m single like it would be so easy if the father was a part of everything

Do whatever makes you feel the most comfortable. I only had my husband, but had originally wanted him and my mom until he got a little upset with her several months ago. Which I'm glad because I felt like while pushing I wanted to knock my husband's teeth out. He thought he was helping and being encouraging, but I thought otherwise.. until it was over and I felt bad for thinking that. Lol you just want to be the most comfortable because you can't push to the fullest while thinking about too much else.

@juliaschade41, I’m really only close with my best friend and little sister but my mom would be devastated

@tkharlow33 yeah my bf was in jail and i had no close friends. My sis suffered from chronic migraines so she couldn't be in there due to the lights, and I wasn't about to have my dad in there lol so it was just my mom.

@juliaschade41, I’m about to just do that

I had my mom.

@db413, I have two sisters which makes it very hard, my mom will be in the room but my best friend is the god mother, I don’t want to have to choose and make my sisters mad 😭

I only had my bf and my sister.