I don't understand why people are such prudes. Pregnancy is NOT a beautiful and clean thing. There…
I don't understand why people are such prudes. Pregnancy is NOT a beautiful and clean thing. There are so many nasty things about it yet non one wants to talk about it. If I knew I was going to bleed from my vagina for almost 3 months, I would have rethought about having kids. Plus the doctors slicing me open and all the blood and my guts being pulled out of my body to pull out my kids... Yeah I was not a fan of that. Oh, and why does no one talk about all the gross things like when you laugh or sneeze and end up peeing on yourself? Seriously, am I the only real woman to deal with my butt bleeding after having a baby because the hospital did not tell me to take stool softeners and I didn't have a poop until almost a month after my kid's birth? As a new mom things like that freaked me out. Yet NO ONE wanted to talk about it. From someone who dealt with all that crap now, I say to everyone else... get over yourself. I could have used help and used a friend to calm me down when I was freaking our that blood was coming out of me. Yet NO ONE wanted to talk about it. Like everyone is to high and mighty for anything nasty to have happened to them. I mean really?? If someone is freaking out over something they don't know and it's just a little gross, if you've been through that and know how to calm people down then just help them. Don't hush them and act like it's not natural. Gosh people piss me off!!!
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I do always talk about the realness if child birth but everyone here sugar coats it. Induction isn't bad, c sections are easy, epidural don't hurt etc. Child birth can kill you. Forcing labor can kill you and your child. It isnt easy. Just because you get an epidural doesn't mean it will work. I can't stand it.
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@beebaby the doctor's who dis my epidural messed up and I have back problems now from it. And for the few people on here that are honest about things, I am glad for... just I've seen to many people get shunned or told not to post their questions or who have pm me because they are freaking out and yet can't or won't put it on here because to many people act as if nothing like that happens or as if it's to bad to talk about.
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I wish I would have been warned about a lot of things too. So now, I warn all my friends who are expecting what could happen. I feel like they deserve to know and feel prepared.