Struggling with taking care of myself got no motivation to eat healthy
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Even just to talk about your stresses and your worries and be given coping strategies and different techniques on how to solve potential problems
@ib.crazyskittles18 then it may be beneficial to find someone to speak to. To give your baby the best life it can help if you can learn to do that yourself
@kayla94 everyone i know who is adopted got messed up by it so doesnt seem a better option to me
@ib.crazyskittles18 if you're really not motivated for your child and worried that you can't take care of them, have you considered adoption or? I know it can be scary being pregnant but if you're concerns are that great I don't know
@loving-life i just have no motivation and i feel like i lack the ability to care like even if i want to i cant like somethings missing from my brain and I was just being honest and agreeing with you i have no energy for myself so i definetely wontbhave motivation energy/ for this kid, im terrified to be a mom
I feel like you are enjoying the criticism towards yourself or you are just having fun over here @ib.crazyskittles18,
@restputant again everything i have said,even in my last response to u was from my very own experience. I feel like i have grown up like ur kids and now in my older age have a yearning that i didnt realize i had when i was younger. But ask anyone,im a great lady with a good head in my shoulder.
Your 1st response was sounding fine then in your last paragraph i felt like u came on to strong hence my last response. This is also a very common thing due to the fact that we are not face to face.
I think from@ib.crazyskittles18 previous posts that your focus has been on baby daddy and that is y your lacking motivation and also y i answered in the way i did. A lot of times we dont really see how strong we are until the baby is here. I am hoping u develop the love im sure u r capable of giving because u have given it to a man not worth ur time.
Im not on here to start a social media war so if u didnt like what i said that is fine, i still feel the way i do. If anyone doesnt feel motivated to eat or anything else, seek help
@pnutbutta they do not yearn to hear it from me. I have not spoken about religion? Where that come from? Sometimes options even those one can and will be taken the wrong way, which from reading all the messages prior to my post has ended up too. Hence why I've piped up. I may be young but defiantly not stupid, but that's just me.
I have said shame in my post yes, it also can be taken as a regular context instead of a stab to the back. Like the word ignorance people now a days takes it as an insult but when I say it it's in the context of not knowing, not the your stupid.
@restputant i wasnt putting her to shame. I think i was talking to her nicely. Trust me it would be very apparent if i was doing it otherwise. I also did not insist she turn to a certain religion but how it helped me. This app is for people to give there advice and opinion and i have done so. I think it is sad when generally speaking we don't appreciate things and people in our lives-again my opinion. Thats great that your kids are self sufficient but i can almost guarantee u that ur kids will yearn to hear you say 'i love you ' and wish u were more naturally attached to them. Also my opinion and from my experience, so thank u for coming out, you may have a seat now.
@pnutbutta each and everyone has their own motivations who's to say what motivation is right or wrong,
Did you know some parents who see kids are motivated to hurt them.
Plus the loving and caring thing about kids is an iffy subject because when they are born they have not developed the emotional electrons like we have as adults.
Just because one is not motivated to eat healthy and does not think a baby is changing that does not mean it's a crime.
Here's an good example MYSELF.
I am not emotionally attached to my kids at all, even the older ones. I personally hate the baby stages due to their constant need of attention and dependencies.
I can NEVER say these words and have meaning be hind it I LOVE YOU.
Just because I'm not their as a what you call it NATURAL MOTHER INSTINCTS does not mean I'm a terrible person.
You can see how smart my kids are, resourceful as well very independent individuals.
They do not whine if they want something, they do not argue over petty things, and above all they are not the collective as I call it SHEEP.
They think for themselves and when stuck in a situation they are fully capable of getting out with NO help!
Now to be putting people to shame for not being motivated is not right!
Everyone has their own unique was. Sure it's not your reason but who says your reason is right or wrong?
@ib.crazyskittles18 u will see. Your son is going to look at u with loving eyes and think of u as his personal superhero. Not sure if u r religious but you seem to have a lot going on emotionally and from personal experience having a relationship with God really helped/helps. Work on your personal issues within yourself because your issues almost always falls on to the child and the cycle continues.
If one is not motivated to eat healthy how the ..... in the world they will be motivated stay up all night, change their babies diapers 100 times a day, feed their babies day and night etc, HOW?
@pnutbutta, I totally agree with you! And it break my heart, it’s a lot of work, commitment and responsibility to raise a child I hope they understand that
@pnutbutta, hun I wouldn’t even bother commenting to such lame posts, some people need to grow up and take responsibility if not for themselves then at least for their babies, ughhhh
@kayla94 love is such a fickle word I can not say I do love them but more so care for them, give them the needs of knowledge and survival that is needed to live.