Being a mom and working full time is hard. How much should the dad help out in your guys experiences? Even if your a sahm how much should a husband help with the kids?
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I think that all the time.. I work full time and take care of my three kids full time by myself. My boyfriend will come around to play with them for like 10 mins here and there. At this point id rather be a single mom
Yeh im a SAHM and he works about 10hrs.(truck driver) and he acts like he need more sleep than me. I get it he needs sleep for good driving so i usually after a night shift with the baby and he comes home in the morning i take the baby in a different room until he wakes up..i feel it should be 50/50 even though he is working..i need a break too so i can function well..i swear thats why im always in a bad mood it seems because i cant pump like i want,eat or sleep..i only get like 2 naps in a day. He helps but to me not enough . i get hes paying the bills and i dont mean to sound whinny but i feel alone most times and tired..like i said he feels he needs more rest and me doing this for 2month straight now has put me in a " i want to break up" attitude and "rather be a single mom" ...crazy right.
I'm mostly a SAHM, but two days a week I go to school. On days that I'm home I probably do more than he does, but he still helps. On days when we're both gone, he helps equally. I guess each couple has to figure out what will work for them.
When I was married and a SAHM. My husband did nothing. I made sure of it. He was gone 12hrs a day and I was home there was no reason. I did it all including yard work, mowing, trash etc.
Now that Im "single" and work FT I still do most of the work for me, my kids, bf and his daughter except cook because we live with my sister and she does that. I think my bf should do more even if ifs just doing for his own daughter.
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They should help out just as much! It is equal.