I'm starting to feel like I'm not gonna have much of a say in anything when it comes to the new…
I'm starting to feel like I'm not gonna have much of a say in anything when it comes to the new baby. My bf and his family want this baby to have a certain pediatrician, that's not even going to be jax's so I'll be taking them two different places. My boyfriend is obsessed with nightmare before Christmas and I'm not at all, it's not like "my thing" I was thinking we could do a theme like guns or glitter for a gender reveal but he wants to do a nightmare before Christmas theme. I really don't want to. I'm just tired of disagreeing and I feel like he just doesn't think I like anything he says, but I can't help it if I don't 😔I just feel like we should compromise. He's obsessed with hunting too so I feel like guns or glitter would be a good theme, should I try suggesting it or just get over it and do whatever he wants?
Brooklyn ·
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I would definitely suggest the idea! It's your baby too he should understand and compromise instead of trying to call all the shots!
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (11 нед.)
@momma_unicorn, @brook., it's just like everyone already decides on things before even involving me. I feel like he's more likely to agree with anything his family says rather than what I say. I swear if he decides for some reason he doesn't want to stay in the super nice trailer my grandparents have and wants to put a tiny ass camper at his parents, it's gonna be a make it or break it for me.
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (11 нед.)
@momma_unicorn, that's the thing is every time I say something, I'm not even mean about it but he takes everything to heart. He goes from one extreme to another, like he'll just say fine you decide everything. That's not my goal here, I just want to compromise and agree on things that we do for our child. Yes, it may be his parents first grandchild, and it should be special for them but it's also still my baby. It's unfair for me to have to completely relinquish any of my opinions or desires, just because he is so set in what he wants to do. He asked what else we would do for a gender reveal and I suggested the guns or glitter, then he said no because everyone does that. I don't know anyone who's done that, but ya know there goes my feelings completely shot down again. I tried explaining that the nightmare before Christmas thing is cute, but it's not "our" thing, it's not something I'm into. It would be adorable for a couple who both enjoys it. He and his family love it though, so that's all that matters 🙄🙄🙄🙄 im so over this shit already, I have way too much else to worry about. You'd think he would be trying to make this less stressful for me, but no.