Trying to figure out a way to tell my husband he needs to not get on the computer for videogames until the kids are in bed, without it starting an argument.
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@ms.dianna1991 yes kids r amazing and the love they have for thier siblings is a blessing is beautiful make me want to cry sometimes lol
@larubia2723, so true especially my older toddler she is a really good big sister she loves her sisters if one is gone she will ask me where our her sisters at I want my sisters and she ask me can she hold the baby and kiss her it’s like permission lol
@ms.dianna1991 yes that's how it is ur kids make u a better person period
@larubia2723, girl my patience is really tin but my kids are making it better for me before the kids I couldn’t stand in a food store line for 5 mins with being like f*** this am done I’ll wait till tomorrow when there’s no one in here smh lol
@larubia2723, that’s good I can only get my 2 year old is to threw a diaper lol that’s it
@joanna.davis, damn girl I wish u had another way for speaking to him maybe try sound language or video game language lol or something u have to say something to him or else he will continue to do this to u and ur kids hun
But yeah it gets overwhelming and u have to have patience for kids running around crazy some moms don't got the patientce
@ms.dianna1991 lol I could only imagine well I have two now and one on the way but is like one really cuz I got my ,15 month old son my 11 year old daughter who always in her room and helps me sometimes but I dont ask too much of her help unless I need a diaper or wipes and is outa reach I feel like that's my responsibility not hers u know and then my little girl on the way and I know when this baby gets here an d she sees that I need help and my husband not home she will help her mommy she is a amazing helper and a good big sis
@larubia2723, that’s good u only have one kid try it 2 toddler and 3 month old ugh it’s a hot mess girl they all over the place
@joanna.davis dam Smh that'd crazy
@larubia2723 @ms.dianna1991 he does help with things, just not as much as he should. And mostly I just feel like his focus shouldn't be on videogames, when he gets home from work around 6 and the kids are usually in bed around 8. Except nights like tonight, where toddler has been difficult about going to sleep.
He's not abusive or anything, he's just very stubborn and defensive. I'm very peaceful by nature, so I can't stand how anything can turn into an argument with him.
@ms.dianna1991 same here I usually ask him to feed him his dinner cuz he won't eat dinner with me for some reason yes I don't bother him to much ethier cuz he works really hard but everything else I usually take care of one kid or two is easy really but more is like having a job is hard work and he sees that that why he will try n help with other stuff and I'll tell him to just feed him then I'll get him ready for bed and just lay him down and close the door we got him sleeping on his own since he was few months old cuz I don't do the ima lay down until he falls asleep lol
@larubia2723, that’s good I don’t like it when my bd baths my girls either lol it’s scary but he works and come home and helps when I ask to but I try not to because I know he works and pays all the bills so I try not to ask him for much you know
@joanna.davis sucks I know cuz it prb feels like u walking on egg shells with him
And he shpuldnt be getting mad cuz u talking to him that's just plain pathetic on his part
@joanna.davis, don’t be afraid of that he is a MAN and u are carrying has baby and had two of them already do what u have to because u have to be strong enough to deal with ur kids okay
It is a lot of work he should want to help esp since u almost about to have another baby
@ms.dianna1991 and honesty I'm glad my husband works but still helps out even tho sometimes I gota ask him most the times he helps he has never bathed him I always do but he feeds him plays with him changes him he does a lot but bathe him that's my job i get to scared to let anyone bathe him but other than that he good so men should know that they need to help even if u need to remind them sometines
@larubia2723, well he has to get over it and grow up 3 kids in smh put ur foot on the ground hun and tell has ass to help u or else love don’t help me with the kids sorry
@ms.dianna1991 no believe me I go off on my husband but I know how my husband is he just walks away lol I get crazy and he know how to handle it by ignoring me but her husband sounds scary I don't like to argue I like to talk shit n my husband to stay quiet but it's not like this in her situation
@ms.dianna1991 it's a giant desktop gaming pc 😥 best i could do is take myself to the guestroom, lol.
That's what I'm really afraid of.
@larubia2723, girl u better then me I ain’t go time or the patients for it pregnant or not😶😶😶
@ms.dianna1991 he sounds kind of violent if he just gets defensive and want to argue with her that might get him extremely angry and really start an arguement
@joanna.davis, well if I was u I would tell him to take that lab top and sleep on the couch with it and if he don’t help u with the kids what happens when the new one comes🤔🤔🤔
He shouldnt men now andays think is the woman's job to do everything in the household just b like baby please don't get mad I'm not telling u this to piss u off I'm tellin u this cuz I need u
Before u even tell him what I said b like baby can I speak to u withougt u getting mad or start an arguement I gta tell u how I feel an d very pregnant so please understand me
@ms.dianna1991 I don't really argue with him anyway, he'll just get all pissy and defensive about it if I mention it.
@larubia2723 even that would probably set him off, lol
Hey u have to tell him and if he don’t get it then there are other options for him u no not to argue with him in front of your kids tell him how u are feeling about this. Situation
Hun can u please help me with the kids until they go to sleep before getting on the laptop
@larubia2723, I no right amazing 😉 I love it 😍