Last year I graduated college and had my baby a few days later. I really wanted to try to have a…
Last year I graduated college and had my baby a few days later. I really wanted to try to have a baby before 35 because I could feel my body was already going through changes like light flows and some months I would miss them completely. I moved to Riverside county to live in a new home that would accomodate our growing family. I had the chance to work after my baby was born but I could'nt go through with it. It was scared of letting other people care for my baby. Now I kind of regret it. She would have been fine. Its been difficult being home all the time. It gets depressing. I hardly talk to anyone and I've been pregnant with the second baby, so I didn't want to start a new job. I've only made two friends so far :(. I'm thinking of switching careers though, so I plan to take classes for the nursing program next semester. I just hope I'm able to get into the classes I need 🤞.
Lena ·
Good luck. I have been both stay at home mom and working mom. I prefer working, but that’s cause I was taught to work and support the ones around me. Makes me feel like I am accomplishing something. When I was staying home, even though I worked my tail off, I felt like I couldn’t do enough. It’s hard. Both have ups and downs. In my opinion being home that first year helps a lot, but it didn’t hurt my kids me working either.