Well looks like I'll be getting a divorce soon. My "husband" would rather take care of our first child over our second because she's his favorite. Won't even acknowledge our second daughter because she isn't his favorite, all he think he has to do with our second is feed and put her to sleep.. doesn't play with her, acknowledge her any other way and just doesn't seem to care too much about her. I'm just really done with him tbh, it's been a long time coming and I thought the marriage could've worked but I'm not tolerating him acting a certain way when he wants and not taking care of HIS kids the way he is SUPPOSE to!
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And I just talked with him today about custody and he literally said he would only want custody of our first, not our second daughter.
I really don't want to divorce but a separation wouldn't even change anything. If I left he would still be the same, no ones feelings matters but his to him. Anything I have said or would say he wouldn't listen to, everyone else matters but my thoughts and feelings. I have cried multiple times about his behavior towards our newborn and he doesn't even make him want to change, knowing that I'm hurting FOR her because of how he treats her and that doesn't even shifts his behavior even a little.. even knowing I never had a father myself and how strongly I want him in BOTH of their life's. never thought he would act this way with her, but I should've sense he acted the same with our first. I just can't be married to a guy who thinks it's ok to completely ignore his daughter when he needs her most, can't trust him :/. And yeah he actually said he doesn't love her yesterday while we were talking, that was my breaking point. Especially since he was there for this pregnancy since day 1.
Did he actually say that? Most men are afraid of babies. My husband barely acknowledges our daughter but in my case I know he loves her like crazy. He will at least hold her for a few but he never feeds her or puts her down for a nap. He is just afraid of babies and all the spit up and poop. Lol if you do divorce you may end up with a nasty custody battle on your hands. 😕
@babybluntsmommy If my husband ever chose a favorite out of our 3 kids I would be leaving with all 3 until he decides to grow up and accept all of them instead of just 1.
@mommabeardarnell1, exactly and he thinks what he doing is alright. To think it is another because I know SOME parents have favorite kids, but to actually show it and full out ignore her cries just isn't right and I wouldn't want to be married to a BOY like that. I rather be on my own and she never have to go thru that, it's just all messed up and it makes me cry every time I look at her because she's so innocent and only 3wks.. how could you disown a child that young and is yours?? 😔
Omg that's not right. How does he think it's gonna make her feel when she gets older and he's still doing the same shit? Smh that's just some bullshit. I'm sorry but that just makes me feel bad for your daughter the way he acts.
Was it wrong for me to take Deandre phone because it took to long for him to complete his homework it’s not that he needed him he just wanted to play
Got into a huge fight with the SO Sunday. He tells me out of frustration that he doesn't care when I tell him I'm tired when I "don't have a job" ig taking care of our daughter an two dogs isn't enough of a job. While I do laundry an crap. An tell me he's tired all the time an he works I don't. An he yelled at me for accidentally knocking over her medicine bottle. An I looked at his phone an he told like 3 people we were done an told his cousin he'd get a lawyer an take her away from me. I can't...
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
It's so sad. I invited my daughter's father to the ultrasound today. He showed up. He didn't even want to sit next to me. He didn't acknowledge me in the waiting room. During the ultrasound he was on his phone. It ended, and he gave me a hug and told me he was going to go see Star Wars right after my appointment. All he asked was "how do you know if the baby is going to be cute or not?"
It's unbelievable. He doesn't care. It's ok if he doesn't care about me, but the baby. It hurts. So now I'm dr...
@babybluntsmommy oh um so sorry!