Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he post pictures and stuff about her he puts my daughter i am honestly double thinking this if I should move or not im 22 and 6 months pregnant!?????
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Mommas who are separated from their childrens dad. If my sons father is to get our son every other Friday-Sunday, but then tells me halfway through the week he can't take him Friday until Saturday due to taking up an optional shift at work, can I legally tell him he either takes him Friday at his ordered time or doesn't get him? He's constantly cancelling whole weekends or taking our son a quarter of his ordered time. He also isn't following the meets on the order. Almost every Sunday he has him I get a message that he doesn't have a car so I have to get my son, or he tells me i have to run him out there. I'm already having cut hours at work and getting no child support from him since he's been continuously in and out of work.
Christal🎃⛄·
Very true. I know some one who's baby grew out if it but he got so used to not having milk that it's really didn't matter. I think they should grow out of it when they get older hopefully. At least they will be careful what they eat in the future and be more healthier like you said
Jess·
@mommieof2babies, I had to throw away a ton of stuff too or donate what hasn't been opened. But yes we will be pros in no time.. Unfortunately but then we will be more helpful to others in our shoes. I'm hoping they grow out of it but at least this way they are eating healthier than normal for the most part.
Christal🎃⛄·
Exactly it's hard because some say if it contains and some like you say you have to really look. I had to throw vinnys puff cereals away because it contains wheat. All the stuff he likes contains wheat so it's hard but we can get through this for our babies. We got this. We will be pros at this before we know it
Jess·
@mommieof2babies, yeah it's tough I spent forever in the grocery store today checking labels on everything. Thankfully a lot of labels will just say it contains wheat or if it's gluten free but there are some that don't and you have to really look at ingredients. It's hard and were new to it. So it's not like we know what has what in it. Before long we will though lol.
Christal🎃⛄·
@missjess yea jar baby food really does make it easier a little bit. Hopefully he knows what you guys are going through and especially and want to help in every way possible see I'm puerto rican Irish && Italian so I cook with alot of milk and stuff so I'm gonna substitute those stuff i cook with either soy or almond milk. Since we going through the almost same thing a can help each other out. It just sucks && is really sad
Jess·
@mommieof2babies, that's my biggest concern is he's going to keep feeding him whatever he wants :( but I'm hoping switching will make a difference and I'll just have to really get on his case about gluten free everything! I went through all his things today and got him some new gluten free stuff. Thankfully he's still at the age where he still eats some jar baby food! Makes it a little easier for the moment at least.
Christal🎃⛄·
@missjess yea I know what your going through it sucks big time I feel like that way also about poisoning I felt so bad but I think that there so young and when they get older they won't know the difference. But keep my posted all we can do is be there for our babies. Hopefully your son's father helps out with this too
Jess·
@morganmommy79, right! Thank you!! It's very complicated
Marilu·
@missjess, I'll help as much as I can. It's complicated till you learn completely. Plus it'll be easier once you find out if it's Celiac or an intolerance.
Jess·
We don't eat out often but his dad does! I feel he thinks I'm annoying but I'm trying to be helpful in relaying stuff to him 🙄 but as for me usually he eats mostly fruits and vegetables. But the puffs I give him and gold fish and cereal have wheat 😶 it's hard some lists I've found list some stuff or say some stuff is fine and others say it's not. I'm just really going to have to read labels even though some stuff idk what it is. @morganmommy79,
Marilu·
@missjess, it's difficult at first but worth the change. It's really hard eating out tho. Mcds fries is a big controversy but they do have wheat in the oil they're fried in.
I have a delicious gf chocolate cake recipe somewhere I could find for you. It's made from scratch and way better than a boxed version.
Jess·
@morganmommy79, cause I had never given him any bread or anything before that. His dad took him to Popeyes and gave him a biscuit he says he noticed something not long after but didn't think anything of it he came home 2 hours later like those pictures I was like wth is going on I had to take him to the ER! His dad is a nitwit. But yeah he's been having digestive issues for a long time I breastfed and ate wheat he had bad colic I've been feeding him whole wheat toasts and whole wheat birthday cake, his puffs and cereal everything I didn't know. :( and all this time we've been poisoning him. No wonder he can't poo and pukes and has trouble sleeping. Feel awful. I'm going to the grocery store tomorrow. And go through everything here that he eats to see if it has wheat. He mostly ears fruits/veggies and rice or little shreds of chicken
Marilu·
How did you narrow it down to the biscuit?
Digestive is a sure thing of gluten intolerance/celiac.
Celiac can stunt growth too. I know several with it and I lived that way for a long time. :/
Jess·
@morganmommy79,
Jess·
@morganmommy79, he was covered in a rash. Had hives, was itchy, sneezy, runny nose, his breathing was struggled as soon as he hit Benadryl and prednisone he got better! But he's had really bad constipation since a young age like 4 months old. And now he's starting to puke a lot. He only had the reaction once. But the digestion issues have been a constant progressive thing :/
Marilu·
@missjess, I had celiac and reacted to gluten in several ways. Once I got pregnant it left. That's happened to several women actually. I felt so much better gluten free but it's hard at first and takes getting used to. If he's celiac tho it's much more complicated. May I ask what his reaction was?
Jess·
@mommieof2babies, it's awful! I feel terrible for my son. We've been poisoning him all this time and we didn't even know it! I'm
Cutting it out completely j really hope his dad does too. I'm worried about him not 🙁
Christal🎃⛄·
@missjess miralax didn't really help Vinny. That's when they took the allergy test and gave him senna to take. These allergies in our babies sick. It sucks hopefully they can really help him and you out I had to go to probably two appts at the gastrologist before they took the test. Wheat sucks
Jess·
@mommieof2babies, I give him miralax and have upped his fiber intake. The upping in fiber has helped. But he's been puking a lot lately and I just found out Monday he has a wheat allergy.
Christal🎃⛄·
@missjess We just found out not to long ago. But since then I cut out baby oatmeal they gonna switch his formula again to neocate. He been doing good they also gave him some kind of medicine to take to go, it's called senna. It helps him somewhat
Jess·
@morganmommy79, really?! Well he had a bad reaction to a biscuit his dad gave him from Popeyes. So he was sent to an allergist and they tested his blood I just found out Monday.
Jess·
@mommieof2babies, I will thank you! How is your son now that you've cut out these things??
Jess·
@believeinbuddha, thank you! I'm looking into some stuff now and relating it back to his dad.
Marilu·
Wheat allergies will make you puke and poop or constipate you. How did u find out about his allergy?
Christal🎃⛄·
@missjess I'm so sorry hun prayers. My son sees one also for his constipation and not being able to poop. My son has 3 allergies to milk eggs wheat. Hopefully your son doesn't have it. Keep us posted hun
Buddhist Mama·
My aunt and uncle are gluten free they love it.
https://paleoleap.com/11-ways-gluten-and-wheat-can-damage-your-health/
Here's a link so you can read more. Some people just can't handle gluten unfortunately.
Monica·
Actually, now that I think about it, the pediatric urologist only took a month to be seen.
Jess·
@nomli, I figured it'd probably take some time :/ until then I'll try and do the best on my end
Jess·
@believeinbuddha, omg! Now I feel bad for letting him eat it. I thought it was better for him. I just found out Monday though that he had an allergy to it.
Monica·
Poor baby. Pediatric specialists are usually super nice, but sometimes it's tough getting in to see one.
Buddhist Mama·
Gluten free is actually very good for kids and their developing digestive system. The proteins in wheat are gut irritants: they're like a papercut or splinter digging into the lining of your stomach, causing an inflammatory response. ✌