Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.
Moms! My baby's bottom is just so torn up and hot:( this rash won't go away fast enough! It hurts him so bad when he screams he throws up multiple times while getting changed! I don't know how to help him quick enough! Help!😭😭
It happened....? 2.5 years and today was the day he heard me fart. I thought I could crop dust him, but it came out full force. He looked at me and busted out laughing. ?
Alexandria Porter·
@beck_yemm, yeah you're right can't hurt to see can It, i think it's my fault because when he was born ild feed him whenever he wanted now he thinks he can get his own way xx
Rebecca Yemm·
I bet it's tommee tippie as they are quite small just buy some and see worth a shot isn't it xx
Alexandria Porter·
@beck_yemm, hmm didn't think of that, I did think some of the teets are to big for him i have all different ones I have a little green one he takes sometimes for a little bit but don't no what brand xx
Alexandria Porter·
@dhovakiinx, ah really, not easy isit, yeah I said the same thing yesterday! It's so hard not to give up &just give him bottles but I don't want to give up until I have to, he has about 4oz if bottle milk
I shouldnt mone as some women aren't able to so I'm luckily, yeah I'll try that few more times it's just I can't seem to leave him to cry lol I feel evil an it gets on my nerves after awhile :L xx
Rebecca Yemm·
What make of dody is it ? Maybe he just doesn't like the shape Harvey would only ever have tommee tippie xx
Alexandria Porter·
@beck_yemm, yea iv been trying tapping on the dummy sometimes he'll give in and take it but othertimes he pretends to be sick and keeps spitting it out &yeah I've seen! They are so ideal though eyy an oo lucky x
Kellie Marie·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего
To me it sounds like unless he gets your breast, he isn't going to settle? that's how it was with my daughter. If i knew what i did then what i do now, i'd just stop breastfeeding completely.
i'd get him use to bottles, note down how many oz he's having & how often, and persist with a dummy? With my son i always noted down how much milk he had and when he had it, so i knew when he was hungry. As long as he's dry and fed and had a little comfort cuddle, then leaving him in his chair or whatever isn't going to do him any harm. 😌 you need your time too x
Rebecca Yemm·
Maybe just try and persevere with the dody as it seems he's just needing a little comfort from your boob and the dummy might give him that xx they are ace expensive though luckily my auntie had one I could use xxx
Alexandria Porter·
@beck_yemm, ah right I have seen them and think they look pretty gd, yeah he has a few but he won't take them, he screws his face up pretends to be sick and spits them out 😓 x
Rebecca Yemm·
Ahh maybe it's not that then Harvey just wouldn't settle in his xx does his have a dummy? They can go in the next 2 me from birth xx
Alexandria Porter·
@beck_yemm, ah right, well he does have a Moses basket but he has slept in it but he wants to use me as a dummy or comfort, how old do they have to be to go in a next to me anyway x
Rebecca Yemm·
What's he sleeping in hun ? Harvey was the same because he didn't like his Moses basket I used the next 2 me and his sleep got a lot better xx