I was waiting for next month to get off of my birth control to go natural after being on it for a…
I was waiting for next month to get off of my birth control to go natural after being on it for a year and a half,but then I kind of feel like my fiance doesn't want another baby. I honestly don't want another baby right now but if it was to happen I would consider it as a blessing. he doesn't want to use condoms and I don't want to be on birth control anymore,so feel like I'm in a lose lose situation. I don't know what to do it makes me confused and it's honestly stressing me out.. why they just can't come out with men birth control so then I wouldn't have to worry about it. Let them deal with the side effects of being on a medication to stop a person from getting pregnant lol I guess it's just wishful thinking, just don't want to regret not going natural trying to be careful thinking about him not trying to use the pull out method Or condoms I guess I'm damned if I do and I'm damned if I don't smh
Leah·
Мама сына (1 год)
@theirmommytiara, if he really is Not ready for another he will use a condom if not then u need to assure him that this is how babies r made lol and your not taking bc because your body needs a break. I hope this don't sound like judging u but in my opinion birth control is so bad for your body naturally how god intended u to be is how u should be but again no disrespect to any woman who chooses that path just sad some men wanna have all the fun but not think of reality.best of luck mama.
DestiniTiara·
Мама троих детей
@txyogagirl thank you I wish I would have never gotten on birth control but as you can see all of my children are almost back to back. lol so I thought that I would try birth control because honestly if I wasn't on birth control for this long I would have been pregnant by now or had a baby.lol you are so correct about birth control I'm going through so many changes and I know it's because of my birth control even the doctor said it but they think I have too many children so it's always try another birth control try an IUD I've tried IUD I've tried the Depo I've even done the pills and I did the one that goes under the skin in your arm the Implanon didn't none of those birth controls work for me I bleed so much because of those birth controls and I know that was my body's way of telling me that I didn't even need that stuff in my system.. I'm going to just do what's better for my health and I'm going to get off and I'm going to get of control and like you said either he's going to use a condom or there will be another baby and or maybe I'll just stop having sex with him altogether and see if he likes that lol
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I'm not wanting birth control either, I had nexplanon, the one that goes in your arm and it really messed my body up. My fiance and I aren't fans of condoms either so we're looking into spermicide.
DestiniTiara·
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@damiensmommy1117 I'm going to look into that as well.because he already told me straight up that he wasn't going to always put out. I don't know if it was because he just didn't want to or he wasn't going to be able to before you know happens. How does the spermicide work?
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@theirmommytiara
It's supposed to kill the sperm before it has a chance to swim up stream and attach to an egg.
DestiniTiara·
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@damiensmommy1117 is it like a gel you put in before sex?
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@theirmommytiara
Yeah
DestiniTiara·
Мама троих детей
@damiensmommy1117 okay thanks