How do you ask your partner for help without offending them? I feel so drained doing everything…

Just tell him why you feel drained and that you would really appreciate help

And tell him specifically what to do not just say "I need more help" I'll say "hey can you please do laundry this week"

@ecahanes thanks for the advice. i will try that

@raquely thats what i assumed as well. *shrugs* but i guess i need to tell him.

Men are clueless sometimes and think we can do everything so sometimes you just need to let them know you are overwhelmed