So, I thought children weren’t allowed to be in a room while someone is in labor & giving birth ? My mom
Thinks she’s going to have my 2 and 4 year old in the room with me. I don’t need them in there, they’re just going to wreck my nerves. In the beginning when I was having a home birth she was just going to take them and watch them now she wants to “watch” them at the hospital, like what sense does that make. Tomorrow is supposed to be my day. 🙃 it's bad enough I already don't get breaks from my kids and you want to bring them to my labor and delivery too 🤦🏽♀️
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It is totally your decision don't let you mom choose for you. Tell her how ts going to be.
But I do know some hospitals do allow children. My daughter was in the delivery room with me at 4 years old.
@beebaby, see both their tablets have broke within the last week 😑 they aren’t about to sit down for nothing. But I just hope whatever happens I’m not stressed out and they aren’t either from being cooped up
@thecreatress Yeah , my kids did great. only took about 20 minutes and they came right back.
The pain was tolerable until the last 30 minutes. They were sitting down on there tablets and I was close to snatching the siderail off the bed. lol. Once they checked me the last time and the head was coming they went outside with a relative and hub stayed for me to push the baby out.
@beebaby, I know my kids aren’t going to act right that’s why I’m just like hell no 😩
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
I just remembered that I was in Labor with Miracle and I had my fiance and my aunt in law in the delivery room right? And the whole time I'm giving birth to my baby girl, she talking shit saying my vagina is hairy and shit like hell Yea I was mad cause I'm giving birth and she just talking shit!! So I was thinking just me and baby daddy in the delivery room and my dad or anyone else come too.
Kids are allowed some times yeah.