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Ok , I must share this. I NEED ADVISE PLEASEEE😒 . Im pregnant by someone I met about 6 months ago. At first he was nice…

Ok , I must share this. I NEED ADVISE PLEASEEE😒 . Im pregnant by someone I met about 6 months ago. At first he was nice but now he is a complete different person. I dont want to call him any names , im just not attracted to him at all. We do not get along whatsoever. I do not see myself being in a relationship with him. Put it like this, when I first met him I was blind. Not that he's ugly, were just not meant to be a couple.... Anyways, I recently got back in contact with my ex from 4 years ago. I never really stopped liking him

We just went our seperate ways. Now he's sort of back in my life 😭😒😜 and he knows im pregnant. I called him over because I needed some closure plus I didnt want to be enemies anymore. Mind you, we havent spoke for 6 months so it was love at first sight again. Do I continue speaking to him or no?!? What do I dooooo 😩😩😩😩

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hayleybug

HayleyМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

Do whatever makes you happy but let the childs father know hes the father (if you havent yet) like @lissakay said you need a relationship with the father and it doesnt have to be a romantic one. If being with your ex is what you want go for it as long as he is accepting that youre pregnant by someone else. Anyone can be a daddy but it takes a real man to raise one. I hope our advice helps you!

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lissakay

Jalissa KayМама двоих (младенец)

You need to tell the father that the child is his but you and he need a professional relationship, not a romantic one for the best interest of the child. Don’t mention the ex to him bc that will cause more issues and stress. In regards to the ex, it is okay to keep contact with him as long as he isn’t shaming you for having a child with another guy. Remember, it’s one thing to make a child. It takes a man to raise one. Best wishes and good luck, JKP.

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That’s a tough position to be in I’m sure. However, if you don’t see yourself being with the man you are with now, you need to break things off BEFORE talking to this other guy. It’s what’s only fair to both of the men. If it were me though personally, I’d probably break it off from the first guy and give myself some time and space. You’re bringing a baby into this world. Gotta do what’s ultimately best for the both of you. Wishing you the best in whatever you do. 😊

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Do whatever makes you happy. Thats my greatest advice from experience...if you don't do what makes you happy you may regret it for the rest of your life...

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