Hello ladies, haven’t been on here in a while but an odd situation has come up and I really have no…

Hello ladies, haven’t been on here in a while but an odd situation has come up and I really have no where else to go for advice as it involves all of my mom squad. So a good friend of mine is due with her 2nd baby in a few weeks and a few of our close mutual friends are throwing her a baby shower. I am really looking forward to helping her celebrate this beautiful new little soul that she is expecting. However, The issue is that I also welcomed a new, beautiful little soul less than a year ago but there was no shower or celebration of any kind as these same friends all agreed that you don’t do a shower for a 2nd baby. They did mention doing a “sprinkle” (a small get together just to celebrate but no gifts) before my baby arrived but then nothing ever happened. At the time it did not really bother me, but silly as it may be, now seeing them make such a big deal about this baby, it make me sad for my little guy that no one felt the need to celebrate his life in anyway. I don’t feel like I can say anything or I look like the A-hole, as if it were about the gifts or something, which could not be further from the truth (with 2 kids I have no space for anything, lol). But I also feel like if I don’t let my feelings be known somehow, they are just going to hang out in the back of my mind and drive me crazy. What to do?? Am I being to sensitive? Should I just let it go? Or say something and clear the air?