So my husband and I ran into my dad's girlfriend in Wal-Mart. I said hi cause she didn't do anything to me. My dad was around the corning looking for something and I walked away cause my dad and I aren't on good terms. And as we were leaving my husband sees my father says oh aren't you going to say hi to your dad. I told him flat out no. And he said well that makes me look bad because everyone thinks that I turned you away from your family. I said not it's not to make you look bad but everyone is so worried about how i made him feel but no one thinks about the way he made me feel. I am stronger now then I ever was before. Yes in the year and a half I have lost contact with most all my family and friends. I am done making the effort to have people stay in my life. You want to leave I'll show you the door. I have anxiety and panic disorder so I need to keep an eye out for the people who are toxic in my life. I'm done being let down time and time again. The only people I need to worry about is my daughter, my husband and myself.