My So thinks being a stay at home mommy is so easy. He thinks I do nothing and I should never have anything to complain about. When he gets home from work he says He needs a break. I ask from our son?? He says from everything. I never get a break to myself. I'm slowly sinking and I feel like I'm failing at this mother thing. As I am definitely failing as a partner and house keeper..why does he think so poorly of what I do, when being a mom is the hardest job I've ever had!
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He needs to appreciate you more! Being a stay at home mom is the hardest job I've ever had also bc your expected to do EVERYTHING! Especially with a new baby trust me I'm going thru the same thing! It's hard when they are that little. As for the house keeping I've been taking an hour out of my day to clean what doesn't get clean within that hour I save it for the next day! Just take it step by step and take deep breaths it will get better! And as for him maybe try explaining EVERY little thing you have to do maybe he'll see how much it is!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Never In a million years did I think I would say this but... I think I want another baby 😩😩
And it will give you more independence as a woman mama