One of the things I hate most is when people try to tell you how to live your life based off of mistakes they’ve made. Like I’m all for a little advice but once you’ve said it, leave it alone you’re wasting your time lecturing me. I’m gonna do what I want regardless. Different people find different thing important and I’m so tired of hearing from family that I need to “enjoy life while I’m young”. I’m sorry but I’m pretty sure I can enjoy life just fine with my baby right there enjoying it with me. I haven’t even told anyone yet and yet I still get these lectures on a regular basis just because I’ve shared with them that I want a baby.