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My husband an I have had such a rough past and we involved our family's way to much. Now, his family talks about his other baby's mom alot even in front of me, I mean I try an support that he has another child but just the way things are mentioned I feel disrespected. And to top it off, Majority of his family hates me because of the many lies he's told to cover his tracks.I mean I'm not perfect, I've done my share of unfairness however I've changed an started with talking to my family an asked them to please respect my decision of remaining together. So every family visit to my side of the family, my husband is always invited an treated with love and respect, but his side.. It's the total opposite!! He'd rather just take our child an leave me an my other boys behind. Sometimes I look at it in a positive way like 'it's better than dirty looks or fiery darts' but it hurts that he allows them to mistreat me! For goodness sake we're married!!! Defend your love, defend our vows, defend ME!! AM I OVER-REACTING?? WHAT WOULD YOU DO????
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@blessedmommyoftwo oh trust me I've tried everything.. I basically gave up an the fact that my husband is ok with that kinda makes me question him about his love for me ya know
Mines kinda similar , but it’s the opposite my family talks shit about us and only want us over cause our kids I have no relationship with my mom what’s so ever and my grandma does nothing but talk shit.. on my husbands side they don’t talk shit about me but they do talk shit about his other babymomma which I agree with them with some of the decisions she’s made ( another story ) but I totally understand where your coming from , I would honestly say something to them I hate feeling uncomfortable .
Well we've started to mend things on our own working with marriage groups at our church.. an I have requested him to do that but he says he can't control them an that I should be the bigger person an say sorry first.. An I'm thinking tho whom?!! I didn't do anything to them only you an I have said sorry an still am by working together still..you know
Yeah your husband needs to stand up for you. And maybe have a talk with his family to explain that what they’re doing is not helping you two to make your marriage work.
I will just stay in prayer. All I can do is surrender that to our father!❤