He doesn't fucking like adoption???? He doesn't want to take care of a child in need because it's not his???? What kind of bullshit is this...he comes to me wanting to get a vasectomy and I'm like I want more kids though then how about adoption. He yells at me saying no because it's someone else's kid
...I've never been more hurt in my life...
That's a really stupid thing to say. Adoption is a great option
Move on even if it's hard I couldn't deal with that. if the man doesn't want kids by getting a vasectomy and doesn't want to adopt, that's bs..