You ever look for advice from someone only to assume your situation is 10000x worse afterwards?…

@tyrellp, I have but the feeling just isn’t going away. Could be nothing or it could be something. I just really don’t know. I’m terrified to actually physically snoop as well.

If I were in your shoes I would be terrified as well. You know him better than alot of people I am sure. Question him, if his answers seem suspicious that's another clue he could be having an affair. And I know you are terrified to snoop only because of what you may find, but if you don't you will only be left to wonder if he won't come clean! Snoop and see what you find!!

@tayler, I’ve asked him about it. He’s been going “fishing” every night he hasn’t worked late til 1 am or so. We haven’t been intimate in a month, there’s no affection, constant attitude. What he told me was reassuring except for the fact of the lack of intimacy just isn’t really like him except for the last time I was in a pregnant towards the end there was no sex and he was constantly going out to see his bestfriend. He says goes to fish to relax and de-stress. Due to the hurricane we’ve suffered financially a lot and we’re supposed to move next month. He says this stress is causing him to be depressed. My MIL offered to watch the baby while I follow him to see where he goes but I feel like that would be the ultimate betrayal in his trust if I were to do that and on the other hand I’m worried if I were to do so and he were up to something like what do I do then. I depend on him for everything he’s made sure of that to a certain extent but also he’s the father of my children and the last be of my life. I would be devastated.

@denisalozic717 I definitely understand i would feel the same way! If you do decide to follow him to see where he goes, take a friend with you. A trusted one! I feel like that could either go two ways. One, you follow him to find that he is Truely just fishing and then your mind is at ease and you can go home and sleep peacefully, or two.. you follow him to find he meets up with another woman or something along those lines & that's where having a friend with you would come in handy because she would be able to talk you into turning around and going home to wait for him to confront him! I can see why you are so upset and in such distress because being in this kind of situation is so hard. I guess the only thing you can do right now is to make the decision to trust his word, or to not trust his word and investigate further into the situation.

@tayler, yes that is really my dilemma right now 😔

@denisalozic717 I'm so sorry girl. I hope everything works out for the best. I'm here if you need someone to vent to!! And in the end i hope it all works out in your favor. ❤

@tayler, thanks mama! I hope so as well 💟