I am so miserable I need to vent. I have 3 kids that are perfectly capable of helping me but they…
I am so miserable I need to vent. I have 3 kids that are perfectly capable of helping me but they wont. Mom has to loose her shit before anybody listens. I really dont ask for much. They help once I'm mad and making them so why is it so damn difficult to pick shit up BEFORE im mad about it😡 and I have a useless husband that doesnt help either, all he does is mess shit up and expects me to clean it. Hes one of those assholes that thinks its still 1960 and the woman who's home does everything. Well I'm sorry but thats not how I work and it never will be. Im raising YOUR kids! I do everything I possibly can while growing a human and im fucking tired(not to mention I've been sick for WEEKS). I wish someone would step up and help me just a little. 😭😠
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Start taking things away from them. Have them earn it back. Make a list if they don’t complete the list they don’t get tv, or any electronics. You are probably having those extra hormones to (completely not your fault it’s the pregnancy) but I would sit down give them a ultimatum. Try to be strong. You do have those preteens and girls at that. Hope things get better
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Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@kylesmom16 thank you. I know I'm bit more crazy than usual but grrrr lol. I need to make a chore chart or something i think, like you said and they earn things or loose them as things do or dont get done. I feel like its more my fault than theirs for letting it all go. I hate feeling so mean though when i get fed up. Ugh this pregnancy might kill me, or them lol(totally just kidding)