Am I the only one who feels out of place sometimes, I try not to think that but I do. My Fiances Sister in law doesn't like me, I feel like they don't want to have anything to do with our Daughter and I want the kids to be friends but how can I let my Child to over someone's house cause I'm afraid she would get picked on, on purpose. I would like to be friends with her but nothing I have did has worked. I just don't know what else to do or think cause every time I make effort to try to be her friend even after she stole from me and hasn't never confessed she won't even be my friend for the kids. I try not to over think it but it really bothers me. Anyone else had this happen to them? What did you do?
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@kaykay1994, hold up she does shit you do? What is this middle school? 🙄
@ashley1994 that's true. I told her once about our money issue a while back and she went and told his Mom and I was like wtf and even after that 2 times I tired to be her friend again even after she did that not to mention when we lived in this place for 2 years she stole tons of stuff from us. I have replaced about 300 dollars worth of things.
@kaykay1994, oh I totally get it. I have family like that. But at the end of the day there’s nothing you can do about it. It sucks it really does.
@star_wars_freak_2010 your right, I'll probably get her a card the next time we will her, I have honestly thought she was jealous of me in some way too. She actually quit her job to be a SAHM like I am I was like seriously you've got to be kidding me. She said she quit to focus on her Education. In a way I call BS. Plus I thought this was funny too I got my hair cut in the Summer and she waited 2 weeks later and got hers cut. I'm just like why? Again. I'll probably do the card thing that seems like a good idea.
@damn.it.red I honestly have tired not to it just bothers me about the kids. I wish she would grow up.
I have a friend who has this same scenario, except her older sister is the one who won't talk to her. My friend kinda went through a petty streak and now she's on the "whatever, she needs to grow up" kinda feeling. Her older sister has one kid and my friend has three. The only way the kids get to play together is when they're at the grandmas house (it works out because grandma babysits the older sisters child). If that didn't happen then the kids wouldn't know each other.
I, personally, would continue on your life, not worrying about what your fiancée SIL thinks. Maybe she's jealous. The best you can do is let her come to you in her own time. Eventually she'll realiZe she's being silly and will hopefully make amends. Just make sure that you @kill her with kindness"
Another example, my dads sister is kinda a jerk to her siblings and makes a big deal about holidays (meaning if we're lucky to see her she gets pissed that people gets her gifts because we're making her look bad because she didn't bring anything). So my dad now sends her a card for every holiday letting her know we're "thinking of her". He also makes sure to send her cards for her birthday and anniversary.
Well just say she's kinda pissed at us lol. But if your fiancée SIL doesn't want to see you or talk to you face to face a card every know and then is kinda nice.
Her loss. Don’t stress about it. She’s just a bitter bitch it seems.
@damn.it.red lol yes she quit her job a few weeks ago she said it was for school or something. But I honestly don't think so. That's what I was thinking too. My, Fiance has let me stay home and take care of things when we first got together then she stole from me a bunch. And, their wasn't anything I could do about it so I went to Lowe's put a lock on the door where we were so she couldn't get in and take things from me. It always happened when I was gone. I've even tired to be nice mature and talk about our differences she just won't.