I need suggestions on what to do. I’m 19 years old and I still live with both my parents, who I have a great relationship with. My boyfriend still lives with his dad and little brother who I also have a great relationship with. We live about 10min apart. I’m usually ALWAYS at my boyfriends house. But after the birth of my son, I would feel a lot more comfortable being at MY parents house. My boyfriend disagrees and wants to be in his own element at his house. I’m just feeling really torn on what to do because I have already told my mom I’d be coming home with the baby. My mom has always been my number one supporter and I know she will take care of me if I need her, without stepping over any boundaries. But I cant say the same for my boyfriends dad. He’s great and I love him but I don’t know if I’ll be completely comfortable. Sorry for the rant, but it’s been on my mind and driving me crazy.
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When I had my baby i had this problem because we're living with my s.o mom and he wanted to come home right away but I told him I wouldn't be comfortable because I know my mom would take care of me and his mom wouldn't, plus I had ppd so once he saw how I was better of with my mom he stayed with us till we came back home , I feel like you'll be better off with your mom hope you guys work something out 😁
Stay at your house. Your comfort is just as important, u dont wanna be walking on egg shells in a house u dont feel comfortable in. Your gonna be shirtless most of the time breastfeeding & doing skin to skin (if u breastfeed) & u dont want 2 other men looking at u. Plus your bf isnt thinking about his dad & brothers comfort.. do they wanna hear a crying baby every 2 hours throughout the night? Probably not. Sounds like u have it made at ur moms, he should be the one moving into your place. Getting all the help u can for a baby is very important, may not seem like it, but u will see once the baby comes. Its a lot of work (when I was pregnant I turned down a lot of offers/ help bcus I thought I could do it on my own but little did I know caring for little person with no sleep is hard stuff)
Compromise. Maybe let him know you'll be at home while you recover, get help and learn how to be a new mom after a few weeks you will stay there for a while? But imo you should be home
You're both young NOT married so he can visit and vice versa
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So I wanted to name my daughter Serenity & then my brother & parents called me after they had a whole house meeting saying the name “wouldn’t get her a job”.. now I’m back to square one 🙄
Legal rights?
Long story short, my husband has recently brought our house, his parents Owned it but he’s now taken out a mortgage and it’s now officially his. I’m not on the mortgage but I’m down as living there. I just wanna know if anything went wrong (touch wood it doesn’t) do I have any rights to half the house? He keeps on oh we own a house now ect but I’m like no you do I don’t :(
Ladies I have a question does my boyfriend need his I.D to put his last name on birth certificate ?
I need to ask someone this have you literally regret having a child with someone. I love my daughter with all my heart but I really regret ever being with her dad.
To be honest go where you’ll feel comfortable you’ll need help and lots of rest unfortunately your bf will have to compromise and understand because it will help you along in many areas