So yesterday I broke down.. I cried I been so stressed with wanting to go back to school and finish…
So yesterday I broke down.. I cried I been so stressed with wanting to go back to school and finish to getting a job. So I can also provide for my kids!! My bf has said he's not pushing me to get a job anytime soon, and I need to relax. But it's hard to do so..when you have a 1 year old, a breast feeding 8 week old. It's hard to find time to keep up with everything..cleaning, laundry, errands while tending to my kids needs.. theirs no time for myself. If one is sleeping the other one is awake, one is crying and then the other one cries. Lol I know I put myself in this situation..but I think this mama needs a night out with my S/O no babies allowed. I love them more then life, but I need some grown up time, a few hours to unwind..and release some stress. Sorry for the long rant..i had too. And i dont think I'm alone in this and if am "sorry not sorry"
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
Being a mom is hard. We feel lonely but always have our babies, we love unconditionally but have no time to love ourselves. School will always be there, and if you need some pocket money there's tons of ways. Definitely get that date night! Don't postpone plan now or you might never go! Have some fun! You're not alone in feeling this way 💛
Leslie. C·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@kambam ughh thank you, I do feel alone sometimes. But it's nice to k is I'm not alone with my feelings..i will get that date night in, I need it..maybe have some wine because I deserve it. Being a SAHM is hard work. But I'm over here complaining and girl you have 2 jobs and still need to tend to your baby and all the house duties. Strong mama right there!!!
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
It is hard. I'm single too lmaooo kill me. Whatever it takes for you to feel less stressed, do it. I smoke, I drink (when baby is asleep or not around) helps so much sometimes.
Robyn ·
Мама троих детей
Date nights even if they’re at home are so important! You still have a relationship with your significant other and at some point in time the kids are going to be at school or grown and at the end of the day you want to still have that bond with that person. of course have a glass of wine shoot I have two glasses mom I want to get crazy have three enjoy!! it it’s OK to let loose every once in a while
Kiana Buni ·
Мама сына-младенца
Can your husband help out a little? I know he works and such. But I'm taking classes online right now and I realized juggling the home cleaning cooking infant and classes with only 3 to 4 hrs of sleep total was too much for me (I applause those who can cause DAYUM!) So sat down my husband and said look I know you work and I'm very appreciative of it but I need help. I laid out my day to day stuff I do it helped him realize I don't get down time. But he goes to work 8 hours comes home and sits watching TV playing with our son and sleeps 8 hours. I don't. So he now does house work (doesn't look like how I do it but I'm not complaining) and work. I do cooking baby and classes. I feel so much less stress. I still don't get tons of time to myself but it's more. I can now sit and watch an episode or 2 a day with my hubby. And even take a nap without feeling guilty about the house work. DH realized I'm more happy to spend time with him and (gasp) not so tired and want to have sex again lol!
Лика·
Мама двоих (младенец)
While is small one so small and need all the time it will be not easy to rest. Once at week I'm ask my husband grab the kids and go to the the daily walk. First time it was just one hour, now it could be 2-3. But it's my time! In bath, bead and lazy coffee. Take care of your mental health!