@diegosmommy0213 we fight about it alot. He doesnt see how hes controlling, but im hoping to get him to go to counseling with me so he can see what hes doing
@diegosmommy0213 he is my oldests bio dad, but has been there for him since before he was born. Pays everything for him. Pays for my phone and all of that. Buys my clothes and stuff. But wont give me money to do it myself.
@allyk.xmommy, oh ok but still he shouldn’t b like that.. when I w dating my husband bk n the day right away he started paying my bills n giving me money even when we were dating then.. so hearing this is so buzzard :( n ur dude shouldn’t do that to u after all u ain’t just a gf ur a gf that has his kid
@diegosmommy0213 it sucks. Every time i ask for money, he calls me greedy and says that's all i care about. But asa i get the money, i spend it on his kids and my kids and his stupid ass
@diegosmommy0213 exactly. Only gas money and every once in a long while, money for "myself" but that is usually money to spend on kids and gas for the jeep
@diegosmommy0213 my little man is spoiled is doesnt like the be set down for long and my boyfriend wont help me out either, he doesnt like the pretty colors
Harmonie·
@allyk.xmommy, welcome
Ally·
@diegosmommy0213 thank you
Harmonie·
@allyk.xmommy, good luck girl
Ally·
@diegosmommy0213 we fight about it alot. He doesnt see how hes controlling, but im hoping to get him to go to counseling with me so he can see what hes doing
Harmonie·
@allyk.xmommy, sorry girl sounds like he treating u like his kid
Real sorry
Every relationship is diff but that one is rough...I wouldn’t put up w that... Imagine if u would get married it would get worse
Ally·
@diegosmommy0213 he is my oldests bio dad, but has been there for him since before he was born. Pays everything for him. Pays for my phone and all of that. Buys my clothes and stuff. But wont give me money to do it myself.
Harmonie·
@allyk.xmommy, oh ok but still he shouldn’t b like that.. when I w dating my husband bk n the day right away he started paying my bills n giving me money even when we were dating then.. so hearing this is so buzzard :( n ur dude shouldn’t do that to u after all u ain’t just a gf ur a gf that has his kid
Ally·
We arnt married. But for some reason he doesnt trust me with money. Idk why. Weve been on and off for almost 3 yeara
Harmonie·
@allyk.xmommy, that’s real mean of him u two should hv a debit card to the same account ur his wife that had his baby that’s real mean
Ally·
@diegosmommy0213 it sucks. Every time i ask for money, he calls me greedy and says that's all i care about. But asa i get the money, i spend it on his kids and my kids and his stupid ass
Harmonie·
@allyk.xmommy, wow girly I’m sorry 😒....
I’m a stay at home mom but it’s diff here
Ally·
@diegosmommy0213 exactly. Only gas money and every once in a long while, money for "myself" but that is usually money to spend on kids and gas for the jeep
Harmonie·
@allyk.xmommy, wait girly I’m confused.... u guys r together n one house n he doesn’t give u money :(
Ally·
@diegosmommy0213 i have no income, and he doesn't give me money
Harmonie·
@allyk.xmommy, what u mean u hv no access ?
Ally·
@diegosmommy0213 kinda. I have no access to money. So unless my mom buys it and helps me put it in and help with kids, nothing happens 😭
Harmonie·
@allyk.xmommy, doesn’t mean he’s the boss
Harmonie·
@allyk.xmommy, my hubby too I just take my card n do my thing
Ally·
@diegosmommy0213 i would, but hes the money maker
Harmonie·
@allyk.xmommy, do what mks u happy not him I do shit that I like
Ally·
@diegosmommy0213 my little man is spoiled is doesnt like the be set down for long and my boyfriend wont help me out either, he doesnt like the pretty colors
Harmonie·
@allyk.xmommy, y
Ally·
@diegosmommy0213 oooo. I miss the crazy colors. But now i never have time 😭😭
Harmonie·
@allyk.xmommy, me too lol I had fire red , turquoise n now this
Ally·
Omg! I love the purple!