Not child related! but really need to vent.
I'm just absolutely disgusted with my council. Back in 2016 i was made homeless by my landlord because he didn't want to fix problems with the house (serve damp and mould dripping from the walls) which was a major health risk to me (was 30+ weeks pregnant) and my daughter. so he just sent me an eviction notice in the post :/ i'll attach photos in the comments of the state he expected us to live in.
BUT ANYWAY
Ever since i've lived at my grandmas waiting for a council property as i've been too afraid to rent privately again after what happened last time. I've been waiting/living here for 1 year and 8 months. Me
and my kids are crowded into one bedroom, and with my third child on the way they expect me to fit his crib in there?? (i'll attach a photo of our room). i've been coming in the top 5 for properties since May now, i just feel like i'm not getting anywhere 😭😪
@laurabump27, We don't live like that anymore :) thank god. but i will be ringing citizens advice! xx
That's damp!!!!! Very dangerous to be living In damp conditions like that the spores get on your chest!
You need to get onto citizens advice asap... or shelter... as they will give you the best advice.. I've heard shelter is a good one to call for advice.
That's bad and you or babies should not be around that!!!!
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Get your grandma to write you a letter saying you can't stay there anymore and give them a date for when you have to be out they should hurry up or put you in temp accommodation till they find you a place x
@dhovakiinx oh because here I think the top 10 get to view the property then if you say you want it they offer it to whoever is priority. That's crazy I really hope you get something soon hun x
@mum2sky, No it doesn't work like that :( you have to be 1st or 2nd :/ xx
@dhovakiinx when youre made top 5 is it you go and look at the property and then youre not offered it from there? X
@mum2sky, Yeah, that's what my dads wife tells me to do. Set up a tent or something in front of the council and say i have no where to go literally. i wouldn't mind, but i've been coming in the top 5 for 5 months now and feel like i'm getting no where :(
@dhovakiinx I was in my mum's living room on the sofa with damp and mold and they tried to tell me to share a room with my sister and my daughter. It was crazy. I was fightng my whole pregnancy with them but eventually it paid off I hope you have some luck hun I do x
@dhovakiinx yeah the council are fucked up. They tried to keep me at my mum's. I stayed there till my daughter was 12 weeks then I went there with my case and baby and they housed me that night. I gave them a note from my mum saying I was being made homeless and they spoke to her on the phone aswell. Maybe wait till baby is like 2 months and do something similar. Unfortunately sometimes you have to do the extreme to get results x
@mum2sky, I know what you mean. i'm due my baby in 4 weeks time, and it's not ideal to be put in emergency accommodation, but i can believe they'll look at my application and see that i'm living with family and look at the next person. I was told the waiting time was 18 months to 20 months and i've been waiting 20 months now. If i'd have known from the start it was going to take this long i would of more than likely gone private. It's cheaper for a council place for what you get privately tbh!
@dhovakiinx the thing is as soon as you say you have some family that can house you they kind of give up on you. If you nan was to kick you out they would be forced to help you. Obviously it's not ideal because you're heavily pregnancy and have children already but that might be an option x
@dhovakiinx I was made homeless and they put me in a b&b then I was housed after 5 months. I'm in temporary accommodation now but it's my own 1 bedroom flat until she's 3. Didn't you think to maybe do it that way? I think because you're on the highest band there isn't much they'll be able to do for you. But I guess you could try citizens advice and see what happens hun x
@srose1989, I've just been reading online, i might give them a call later and see what they advise :) x
They can fight ur corner they do all the phone calls they r good yano I go there over anything xx
@srose1989, Can they really help? i didn't think they could do anything. X
@srose1989, I'm already at the highest priority (Band A). there's nothing more they can do 😪
U got a letter of ur midwife to boost ur application with housing? X
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