Literally so done with my mother in law. She called my daughter a "little shit" twice on my husbands birthday (today) and trying to make sure he had a good day I promised I would let him have a day to do what he wanted and he wanted to spend time at his family's house.
@maemae, the context in which she was saying it was like her laughing and being like "look at this little ____" and I don't care how she puts it, it's simple not okay to talk to children like that let alone my child!