Am I wrong for not wanting to spend “family time” with my baby daddy and his mom since she flew in from Chicago to meet him? I mean, they’re only coming to see my son but act like they can’t go and do something with him or watch him while I run errands for like 2 hours. All they planned to do was sit in the house with him. I live with my parents btw.
@thehergruderfamily, exactly! I’m up bright and early because he wants to be here by 8 AM to see him. My baby is usually sleep at that time so they’d just be watching him sleep. 😐 He lives 3 hours away but only comes and see him maybe once a month.. I told him we have stuff to do so I’m cutting the visit short because they know my situation.
@beansmuva like for one its about the baby not you or him two what's up with the spotlighting someone and three there's places everywhere
@thehergruderfamily, thank you. we were never together and it’s just awkward that they just want to sit in my mom’s house.. I know my baby is just 3 months old but he doesn’t live in a bubble; they could def go and do something with him.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
To sit and be helpless and watch my baby have a episode in my arms and I can't do nothing it kills me my eyes all watery. Why don't it just stop like my baby is so tiny and all I can do is hold him and pray over him...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Racial nickname
I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
Creeped out!
A new guy at work just tickled the back of my neck! I cringed and told him "Don't ever touch me, that weirds me out!" On Monday he pulled my braid as I was grabbing parts for him, I also told him don't ever do that. Ugh. I don't feel comfortable working with him EVER! A coworker told me that when she walked past he said "what's cooking good looking". I feel he doesn't deserve to work here. I can't feel like I'm going to be harassed at work. Like who does that?? I'm so creeped ou...
@beansmuva yeah because that's your son you had him your rules your standards your comfort zone