Okay ladies I need some help me and my husband haven't done it sense I got pregnant and by done it I'm assuming all of you know what I'm talking about sense were all mommy's on here or soon to be mommy's but anyways I need a new look something to help me recreate that spark we had before I got pregnant I tried getting advice from one of my close friends but sense she isn't a mom or married she doesn't understand and told me you can't be sexy while pregnant so now I'm asking you ladies for advice on what to do how to change my look up some to get him to look at me the way he use to and maybe start up that spark again so any advice would be helpful thanks.
@stellamadigan81 well yea, who doesn't, but when its been a while, it's kinda out of their control
@cbrebelkat lol I know I love it when he takes his time 😀
@beccaaalynnn11 lol yea when me and my husband haven't done it in a while he likes it to last
@beccaaalynnn11 lol maybe I should try that but really need the conference boast
- Oh my gosh! 😅 after four months of us not being intimate, the first two times he lasted maybe five minutes lmbo @cbrebelkat
- Yes ma’am. And that’s completely normal. I feel so bad about myself sometimes I send my FOB to his moms. He’s like your husband, always tells me I’m beautiful, but it doesn’t help. When I get really bad I take a me day. Pedicures, hair cut, and I’ll do my makeup, oh and get some froyo! Always helps me. (:
@cbrebelkat lol it take him longer then 5 minutes
Lol, if it's really been that long, it'll only take 5 minutes, if that
@cbrebelkat lol he goes to work in the morning the only days he is off is Saturday and we normally do family day on Saturday
@beccaaalynnn11 thank you and I think I might be lacking a bit on confidence I notice sense I been pregnant I haven't felt that good about myself so it might just be me plus before I got pregnant I was able to wear whatever but now I can barely fit into my close lol even thought my husband still says I look beautiful
@cbrebelkat I did that last light he just fell asleep on me
@courtney.welsh yea we have talked he said it's because he is to tired most of the time I mean I can't say anything he does work two jobs so I understand where he is coming from with being tired and he also said that he doesn't know how to do it with me without my stomach getting In the way
- Talk to him.. I was in this boat. I felt horrible about myself, was always sick, and he has never been the one to just want sex. It’s always been me lol we work hard, so he’s just always too tired to want to. Anyways, two weeks ago I was hurting so bad, that I wanted to be intimate. It helped me with my first pregnancy. Unfortunately this time, I’m too sensitive and it’s actually painful, but it still helps my hips. I trailed off here a good bit, basically you just need to talk to him. And as far as your new look, just do what’ll make you confident. Confidence is all being sexy is. Do some makeup; your hair, whatever will help you. (:
Have you tried to just talk to him about why? Some men think they'll hurt the baby and you just have to explain how they're wrong. Lol
@momof4babez lol we haven't done sense when I got pregnant with was about 5 months ago I give him hints but he just doesn't seem interested but he does tell me I look beautiful everyday
Have you tried different positions I think I’m going to try as well lol put on some thing that makes u feel sexy idk lol
the problem is he don't like BJ's like I have tried millions of times he just isn't really into them he likes getting down to business
I'm due April 2nd 2016 and I'm lost on how many weeks and months I am only because I lost track could any of you other mommy's help me out
My doctor also recommended me getting the flu shot while pregnant ? I'm not sure if I want to or if i should ? It's all scary to me !! What do you ladies think ? Did you get the flu shot while pregnant ? Are there any risks? Or should I wait ? I'm so scared of taking anything while pregnant , much less getting this shot.. He said it isn't mandatory , just recommended.
Any helpful advice for me to help ease the pain? I'm pregnant and still breastfeeding my 19 month old, but I cry every time because my nipples are hurting so badly, and my daughter wants to be on them 24/7.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I need some advice my babies father gets really mad when he drinks liquor. He woke me up and started a big argument about the thermostat he completely destroyed the room and choked me this is the 2nd time he has done this. I'm going to church today and I'm not sure of what to do when he starts calling and texting to talk to me because he realized he messed up. I need some advice and solutions to help the problem.
@cbrebelkat lol not with my husband he litterly takes his time