I left my husband after 11 years (2 kids) because he was cheating (not physically at the time) and I thought I didn't love him. I have so many regrets from it. I'm over him but looking back it wasn't what I thought. My life was hell afterwards too. Still is at times.

Sorry to hear this and im divorced i left my husband after 3 children and 9 and half yrs of my life i didn't chest physically but i became emotionally attached to a long time male friend i was confiding in due to finding out my husband was cheating with women and my gay cousin also found out he was doing coke do i divorced him and its been 3 yrs im with the male friend and we are expecting a daughter together if ur not happy and ur sure your completely not wanting the marriage then yes divorce him if not then try to work it out but only u can choose ur path