Should I be ashamed if i planned to have a child even though i didnt have my life together yet? Im pregnant because i didnt use protection, if i got pregnant, i wanted it. I wasnt trying but i wasnt preventing it either. Actually i prayed for it a couple times. But i no longer have a permanent job, im not married to the babys father yet, and we just moved in with my mother for the moment, so even our house isnt permanent. I sometimes wonder what did i get myself into? Was it the right thing? Should i be ashamed?