Mom.life
Alright, well I will start with I have anxiety and depression. No I don't see a doctor about it and no I take no medication. Anyway I am pregnant a 3 time in my fiances parents house. I lost my first 2 babies here. His parents love chemicals. They have really bad roaches. They never told us they had them when we moved in. We came all the way from Missouri. Its been a year and things are worse. I am about 10 weeks pregnant and me and my fiance want to go back to Missouri. We have a home there and land. My fiances parents insist too strongly that we stay. I have 4 cats and 2 dogs. They have renamed MY animals! They tell me what I can and can not do with them. The othwr day I scruffed my own cat because she was fighting. BTW these are indoor cats they made me put outside because they have 50 cats inside. Didnt know it was like this when we moved in. They have about 10 or so dogs and puppies on the way inside and there is poop and pee everywhere. Its pure nasty. They want me to have a baby here. Anyway they made my fiance lose his job he had. They refused to take him even though he pays gas. We were both jobless. I find interacting with people difficult. I just got a job in fast food and its extremely stressful. He is on the hunt for another job. BTW I have to walk to my job. My first 2 pregnancies were high risk. I am considered high risk now for all pregnancies. Anyway my fiance got into a fight with his parents and I tried to stop it. It started with his mom saying I was a pig and ate all the food. These people buy food and let it rot. When I had WIC they used ALL of my food. When I got my cheese they took it upstairs and I never got to eat any! Anyway I ate one piece of celery and all hell broke loose! I have been going without breakfast and lunch because if I eat anything they will yell at me. When I look in the refrigerator I have a panic attack and cry because I am hungry and if I eat something I will get yelled at and told I am a selfish pig. They also tell me I am below them because of my religion. Well, during the fight the other day my fiance told them they will never see their grandchildren ever. His dad threw a pan of dirty water in my face! With my second baby while things were ok they kept asking to let his dad sign the birth certificate. I obviously said NO. Just the way they talk and act if the baby lives I think they are going to try to take it. We need the money to get to missouri and my car needs fixed. I think they are cutting my tires. I keep putting tires on it and the next day they are flat. His dad stole our car battery and recycled it and kept the money. They charge us to stay here and they have the bills in my name because they cant have them in theirs. I am scared they will ruin my credit. I know his mom has my SSN. When we leave I am shutting off services. They wont let me even see my bill. We are supposed to pay it but they dont let us see it. We forced them too this month. They had been telling us its 500. Come to find out its 240! They go out to eat and bring snacks and sodas home and we have nothing to eat. They wont allow us to get food stamps and the job I have will bearly cover the bills. Since my fiance told them they will never see the baby they refuse to take me to the medicaid office and the doctor. They figure I guess since they wont see the baby they should let it die. I hate them. When I leave I will be calling code enforcment and animal control. Their house will be condemned because they will have no electricity when I leave and they will have their animals taken. Honestly they abused the wrong people. When we get back home to missouri I think everything will be so much better the baby might survive. I am trying to get a ride to the medicaid office. Its too far to walk. I lost most of my friends. I am having a really hard time. I am doing the best I can.
04.10.2017
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goddessofthree
goddessofthree
Wishing you the best @twillightrose,
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goddessofthree
goddessofthree
Run away and never return. This sounds like a horror film and This doesn’t have to be your reality hun
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You're right. Patience is virtue. Well you know what you're doing. I pray for you and your baby. Pray everything goes as plan. Good luck mama.
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twillightrose
twillightrose
@lovely_angee we are getting out. We have no ride to get anywhere. We are working so we can get our car running and go home. I dont need to go to a shelter. The shelters here are not safe. Less safe than just staying put. I have been homeless before and the shelters are more terrifying. Once we get the car fixed and enough money for gas to get up there me and my fiance have a good job waiting on us. A home and enough land for our 2 dogs and 4 cats to be happy. Sometimes it takes patience and planning. If we leave now the shelters are bad, we have no money, I have no way to work, i cant take my car or animals and my things will be stolen and sold, my credit ruined and my animals will be left with abusers or picked up by animal control and euthanized. I am trying to do the best I can so that the outcome is the best it can be. In 2 months we are out. I am trying to get a ride to medicaid office now.
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@twillightrose Pls get out of there. Find a shelter for now. Tell them your situation. You can also go to a health department or social services. You cannot stay in that environment is horrible for you and your unborn baby.
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twillightrose
twillightrose
@birdknees79 I dont even have a bedroom. I sleep in the livingroom with no privacy. I was lucky I brought a mattress from an exfriends house. His mom wants it really bad because its foam. She offered to buy it from me for 40 bucks. I paid 200 a few years ago for it. She is mad because its too big to steal.
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twillightrose
twillightrose
@lovely_angee I have no living children. The only reason my profile has my babies on there is because even though they are dead they are my babies.
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twillightrose
twillightrose
They woke us up at 5 this morning and I havent even had a drink or food yet. To be honest I have been stealing old food. I just wash the cans really good and check the seals. They have really old food cans in the dining room on a messy shelf. Some of its still good.
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twillightrose
twillightrose
@amanda730 @kelseychapman13 thanks for offering to me the chance to vent. Things are so stressful. And on top of it I have chores! My Mom wants me and my fiance to come home really bad. My sister was nice and was able to send a couple pizzas our way by ordering online. His parents were very angry we didnt share the pizza with them.
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twillightrose
twillightrose
@birdknees79 who goes through someones stuff and steals their sex toys? (The handcuffs are real.)
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twillightrose
twillightrose
If I would have known they were liers and thieves I would have stayed in Missouri. I might not have lost my babies then. We have a beautiful place in the country away from stress and people and I can garden and have chickens. I miss it so much it causes more depression. We need about $1000 to fix my car. My car battery comes first because she is getting her alarm back on! I think his parents are the ones that busted 8 car tires including our spare. I think they are doing everything they can to keep us here. My fiance was adopted by an abusive family because he was taken away from his parents. They did meth. He found them again and they are off it and his dads a preacher. I think they want to steal any baby we have so they can pretend they have their kids back. They told me my parenting views should be illegal and I should go to jail. I wont vaccinate because it causes illness in my family. Rare allergic reactions. I want my baby to live. They told me to my face that its better that my baby is vaccinated even if the baby ends up in a wheelchair at 10 and in a diaper. I told them I will be homeschooling because I want my children to succeed. They said its child abuse not to have them around other kids all day and they wont be socialized. I told them there are homeschooling groups where all the kids go out and play together and do activities. They said it wasnt enough. I told them I want to breastfeed. They said it was nasty and they dont want me to breastfeed so that they have the baby more. I want to use cloth diapers because the babies in my family have bad allergies and diapers cause chemical burns. They said that was nasty and not normal or safe. I want to raise my baby with farm animals and learning how to garden and collect eggs and to know where food comes from. They said I would be depriving my child that they should be playing video games because kids should never have to be responsible. They also TOLD me that they will be taking my baby to church even though its not mine or my fiances religion. I will be raising my baby pagan. They told me also that it is also abuse. I want all natural products because health is important. Well they had sprayed me in my face 'accidentally ' with an extremely strong pesticide during my earlier part of pregnancy and I ended up in the hospital with a scary allwrgic reaction. She blames my parents for not exposing me to enough chemicals as a child. Who thinks like that?
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No human should ever go through that horrible situation. Almost seems like a horror movie clip. I am so sorry you are going through that. You know there are shelters that help women with children in situations like yours. No they won't take your kids away they help you get back to your feet. You need to find a shelter. That home is not safe neither healthy for you, your children or your unborn baby. I am not sure where you stay at but I wish the best for you and I hope you get out of there fast.
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twillightrose
twillightrose
@birdknees79 he wants out too. The issue is money. His parents get mad and end up getting him fired. They make him work for them for free. On top of it I caught them stealing. They wanted us to look for something in their desk. A flash light or headlamp and I found my fiances ring and my handcuffs! They have more of my stuff I know.
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kelseylucas13
kelseylucas13
@twillightrose, I am sorry you are going through this. If you need someone to talk to I am here
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miracle.babies.2018
miracle.babies.2018
Message me if u need to vent him
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