Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
I have seen so many posts on ultra sounds and how mommas are having to go so long without having one. This is something so strange to me! I had an ultra sound every single appt. with my son and then when I had to start going to high risk I was seeing him twice a week one ultra sound there and one at my regular Obgyn. It's going to be the exact same with this one. Went in and got and ultra sound at 6 weeks and I have an appt Monday for another ultra sound. I will be having one every single appt until I have this one.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
😭😭😭😭😭 PLEASE HELP ME 😭😭😭😭 Never been so scared in my life... 8 weeks and 4 days ( ultra sound pic said how far I was ) they could hear my babies heart beat. Went to monthly check up today, they told me I'm 12 weeks... not possible. Any who, no heart beat was found and they didn't schedule me an ultra sound to see what's going on... I hope my baby is fine.. the look they kept giving me was an unsure look if I was still pregnant. Having no spotting or having extreme pain.. i don't know what to think or do right now... been crying all day because I'm scared shitless 😞💔. I've asked them if I should worry and they said " all I can say is don't do anything that will do anything to make it worse than what it might be.. I'm sorry " 😭😭
I'm looking through my photos and I found one of my SO and I. I'm now thinking about how obsessed with him I am. I wanna see you and your man! Go! 😊
claudia amezcua·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Take stroller. Snacks he like not extra sweet cuz you will have a hiper baby
Ashlyn Kesler·
Мама сына (2 года)
Thank you everyone I really appreciate it . You ladies are awesome 😘
Pam W·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года)
That's what I was going to say...give him ur phone n let him watch something on YouTube. That usually does the trick.
Jes ·
🙏🏽 hope they have WiFi for you ! I had to bring my daughter to my last ultrasound and the tablet saved the day
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@zaydenmomma15, I agree with @thecreatress, does he have a tablet ? Or play something for him on ur phone !
Ashlyn Kesler·
Мама сына (2 года)
@thecreatress, yes he does about the only time he will sit still . I hope the drs office has wifi because I'm defiantly going to bring it . It keep him occupied for like 20 minutes or so then he's ready to start running again .
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@zaydenmomma15, as long as u don’t give him what he wants when he’s bad and reward him when he’s good he’ll be fine. He’ll grow out of it 😊
Ashlyn Kesler·
Мама сына (2 года)
@cristina805, thank you so much I appreciate it more than you know . It's just me and him a lot of the time and lately he's been so crazy . I know it's he age but he literally won't listen to anything I say 😫 testing every boundary possible all at once .
Jes ·
Does he have a tablet by chance ? 😩 I know how you feel
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@zaydenmomma15, I’m pretty sure the nurses will be used to it lol
Don’t stress lovely. Not good for baby 🤰🏻 it will turn out fine. And congrats on ur little baby ! 👶🏻
Ashlyn Kesler·
Мама сына (2 года)
@cristina805, I don't . Not even one person 😫. That's what my man said that he was sure that a nurse would come in and help . I've been so exited for this appointment because it's my first ultra sound that wasn't at an er and they are checking everything with the baby . Now I'm just super nervous . I love my son to death but he is really high energy and in full blown terrible two mode . I feel like it's going to be stressful 😥
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U don’t have anyone else to watch him ?
Maybe one of the nurses can hold him ? 🤷🏻♀️