Ladies whose been in some hurtful relationships please help me i need advice as much as u can givs.…
Ladies whose been in some hurtful relationships please help me i need advice as much as u can givs. Im so hurt... Me and my childs father jus got engaged. And swore wed quit the pot. Wlell he snuck a few hits with my own brother last nite and im just now finding out. I kinda feel empty and like he already broke the meaning that we are trying to build a family. And im jus crushed. My dr told my due date may have to be switched to 4 20 18. I prey to god it dont get switched to that. Cuz my babys dad was like hell no then our kid will learn the meaning and wanna smoke. And im now thinking well if u dont want ur kid to smoke why dont u practice a dam positive role model...gosh im in tears idk if im over reacting but im now in my 2nd trimester and hes doing this. He needs to grow up any women have any hint on how i can get him to calm down i mean im 22 hes 33 and both our birthdays are may 7th. Jus dif years...please give me advice i am trying not to stress cuz i jus already got put on bed rest and am high risk the dr said he needs me to call every few hrs due to i am on watch for going into premature labor any minute so i aint supposed to stress ladies please help..
Ambrosia ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Do not stress. I spent a year and a half begging my fiance to quit smoking cigarettes. We have an age gap, and I want him to be as healthy as possible. He would would wear patches here and there but never consistently. He can't stop smoking cigarettes. I just tried to understand that I can't make him do anything. I surrendered. I just now have hope and patience that he won't depend on tobacco. Unlike weed, it causes major health issues but all I could do if offer support. I let it go. It was driving me insane. It's a lot harder for men to give up these habits. Let him know you accept him and not his habit. He may change his mind once he sees the baby. Most guys are self- centered up until the baby arrives. It's not worth a preterm baby, so just release this issue but stand firm on your opinion of his habit.
Wvgirl·
I would try and calmly talk to him about it and tell him for your child please stop smoking weed and that you want have your child around that.
Cheyenne Obrien·
@sittingprettyrose see jus the biggest thing is how much money he spends on it when were already short on rent and have no money saved for our lil baby and im gettinf big. And the babys growing fast they said for it's age i couldve found out the sex but decided not to but now i regret it lmao cuz i wanna start getting stuff
Ambrosia ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Right, it is an expensive habit. I believe you both will pull thru, I would hate for weed to get the best of the relationship. Hopefully you can talk this over with a family member, and have a backup place to go. Weed is such a popularized drug, and people are slow to realize how it affects others. And getting stuff is one of the most exciting parts of being pregnant, I'm sure they can tell you at your 20 weeks anatomy sonogram!