Am I the only one who struggles peeing in a cup at the dr? 😭😭 I just wanna cry. I'm too pregnant for this shit.
@maesmommy04, it's mostly the tearing I'm scared of. I could honestly not even tell the kid was coming out both times. But I definitely felt the tear I had. I needed a couple stitches both times. It was the only pain I felt. So I'm sitting here thinking....if I can't feel a child come out of my vagina but I can feel the tear with an epidural.....how bad would that tear be if I couldn't have the epidural. 😭😭😭😭
@brianne pain meds** lol
@brianne natural isn't as bad as people say. I didn't have the epidural. And if you really need packing meds. They can put something in your iv to help
@askale.facey, idk why but I missed this morning. I got pee everywhere but the damn cup. 🙈
@maesmommy04, I'm scared it's gonna happen too fast for me to get my epidural. 😭😭
@brianne, my problem is that I always forget to pee in the cup n have to wait till I've drank more fluids to get them their sample 🙈🙊
@brianne yeah I went into labor the night before. I wasn't dilating. I got home at 4am. At 9:30am my water broke. At the hospital by 11. Was at a 2. At 2pm I was at a six. Showered. At 2:30 I was complete. My daughter arrived at 2:55
@maesmommy04, I didn't. I am so grateful for how easy it was. My first, I labored for 3 days. All at home. When I went in finally, I was 7 cm and since I was 36 weeks we weren't prepared. Lol. They immediately admitted me and had me do paperwork and got me the epidural. By the time everything calmed down I was 9 1/2. 😂 my second I was induced and just sat there a few hours laboring. Half of which I had the epidural. My first I pushed for 30 minutes. My second I pushed 3 and a half times. 😂😂
@brianne haha I would be too!! I was kinda glad mine broke on its own. My sister always had hers popped after she was at the hospital and she seemed to have a tougher time than me
@maesmommy04, I have no shame in my pettiness. 😂 I'm actually nervous about my water breaking at home. Or worse, at work. 🙈 with my first, I was fully dilated before they broke my water for me. My second I was induced and my water broke while I was already numb from the epidural and I was 20 minutes (if that) away from pushing. This time I'm actually gonna be working until dr tells me not to or until baby comes so I'm scared about my water breaking in the middle of work. 😂😂
@brianne I'm just thankful my water broke at home. If I would have had to deal with them longer than I did...my pettiness would have showed big time
@maesmommy04, I'm too petty for that mess. 😂😂
@brianne haha I played nice cause with my temper I would have been in cuffs! Lol I had one very awesome nurse and one I wanted to kick in the face. So I bit my tongue
@maesmommy04, seriously?! I would refuse to. 😂 you don't need my pee you need to get this kid out of me.
It's awful how much they make you pee. I had to pee in a cup after my water broke and I was like really?!? There's a kid crawling it's way out and you need to examine my pee??!!
@db413, I have to do it every visit at my OB. I've gotta stop doing my appts first thing in the morning. I've already taken my morning pee (couldn't hold it this morning) and there's not enough time to need to go pee again.
I had to pee in a cup before they induced me. It took me 3 tries before I got enough in the cup

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
i need a baby name i love 😭😭😭😭
I just hate the way I been feeling and the thoughts that have been running through my head 😭😭😭😭😭
Okay ladies so I can no longer drink Coffee or Soda🥤💔😔 I need a moment of silence 😭😭😭 I’m hurt lol
@brianne I didn't know my daughter was out till I saw her. She tried to tear up so they did an episotomy. They number the insision but I felt the stitches. Only pain I remember.