UPDATE: well ladies since i let go of ttc my life has been wonderful. Im loosing weight and feeling very sexy and as for hubby he is loving it all. No more obsessing about pregnancy ,since then ive gained confidence and im feeling more energetic. Sex is through the roof because i have more time to try pleasing him instead of watching for faint lines which i want to add that has made my eye sight horrible. I have more money to shop and i spend more time in the mirror than on the toilet with a stick. I have no idea when ovulation is and i want to keep it that way. If its meant it will happen