Ladies I am lost. I have been with my man since highschool (5 years) he never calls me beautiful. The only time he did was when he was high. Which he stopped because I told him he wouldn't be able to see the kids anymore if he smoked because it's illegal I always compliment him. His compliments are smacking, pinching my butt and saying it looks good. He is very rude. The other day I was running around with both kids also cleaning the house. When I turned on the bath to bathe my daughter he said "Are you taking a bath, I'm only asking because you stink" It hurt me so bad. He tells me I do nothing for our house and that it's not mine because I don't pay rent. He nevet helps me with our kids and lately he's been leaving bed in the middle of the night and sleeping down stairs. He is so nice to every one but with me he is always grumpy. I am so done. I want to move out but I have no job and no friends or family I can stay with. I am so stressed. Plus I have school to do I am so behind, all I need if a few hours on the computer each day but I can't do that because he doesn't take them off my hands. I stay up crying, my sleep schedule is all messed up. What do I do?
Sorry for such a long post. I have been needing to vent.
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Your not stuck ??!! Just get a job and save up and move out that's it .
@evalenaan not really sure what to tell you, bc that's one of those situations where ur just stuck! Maybe try to talk to him and see if it can get better. I've been with my hubby since high school too, and it's been 11 years. But we've been thru hell and back and are stronger than ever! If that doesn't work maybe you can talk to a social worker that can help you figure something out! Mama's are amazing and strong and should never be talked to like shit! Stay strong!
Been there. My ex would treat other people so much better then me, and call them beautiful everyday, tell them good morning beautiful, and I would barely get that and it made me feel horrible, but you need to find a job, so you can move because no one that truly loves you would say things like that to you, and treat you like that. Their is places that will help single mothers in college, and give them money monthly.