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K. Hyatt-R
h.kima
K. Hyatt-R
Ok I have a relationship question........I have many friends but only a handful that I am close to and in some way talk to on a regular basis. They have been friends for many years, some over a decade. All of a sudden I have been accused of cheating on my SO because I am always on my phone.
#1 these people like I said I go to for all things in my life but he says I text them too much. I am a believer that a text could be one word or a long story, and a person can cheat even if they don't text so how can he judge what I am saying or doing by a number of texts.
#2 I had a miscarriage the last time so I am on all my apps, internet and such things to understand all I can about what is going on.
I am in no way wanting to make excuses so please let me know if I need to change something.
29.09.2017
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julia1roxie
julia1roxie
I'm a huge phone addict and my SO also hates it. I've learn to included him on what I'm doing. Defiantly if it's baby research, videos, etc. I also let him know who I'm texting and what about. Not because he thinks I'm cheating or because I have to. But just to let him know what's going on in my world. I also am trying to limit my phone time and not be glued to it. Place it in another room to charge and focus on us.
23.11.2017 Нравится Ответить
h.kima
h.kima
He doesn't believe in date nights. He also doesn't believe in going to see or talk to someone just to get an un biast opinion. Not a therapist or counselor. Not even a pastor. Yea most of my phone activity is like while cooking dinner because everyone has jobs, lives elsewhere and has families and such. My apps are at night when it is convenient for others because of time zones. I don't all the social media sites.
Yea it also bugs me too for people to be locked to their phones. I am a hopeless romantic who loves the written word. Your advice is very helpful because it makes you focus on all things. Thank you!!!!!
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muvaofthree
muvaofthree
If he thinks your doing something shady , then maybe he is ....
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mfn_ana
mfn_ana
Personally, I hate seeing people on their phone 24/7. Yeah, check your media and all that is fine but my sisters never put theor phone down, it gets annoying to me. Buuuttt I wouldnt think they'd be cheating. If someone was cheating, they (usually) aren't dumb enough to be doing it in from of their SO. It could just be constantly on your phone that irritates him, maybe try a date night where there are no phones? Or just spend time together maybe
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