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Shanel Love
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Shanel Love·Мама сына (7 лет)

Not ready for my son to come yet and it's mostly because of how unprepared we are. I expected things to be a lot differently by now and again I'm left disappointed.

28.09.2017
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rmreed
Rachel·Мама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет)

Ugh, I feel for you! Maybe go to a woman and baby shelter? You have to do what's best for baby. They'd help you get on your feet. Start the poor baby off right, not in those conditions

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mamaways
Shanel Love·Мама сына (7 лет)

@shecole I would / could do it by myself if I wasn't living with someone else who continues to lie and sell me false hope. He came through on SOME things but nothing we agreed on majorly changed plus a lot of information in regards to the houses condition was withheld and its too late now for me to do much of anything at this point. I can't work, I can't move, I don't have any family close or anyone else that can take me in at the moment. There's no cleaning supplies, my food stamps don't last because his brother does what he wants, the spare room which is supposed to be the nursery room STILL hasn't been cleaned and he won't allow me back there to help because of the dog hair, dust, dirt, mouse poop, etc. If I had the money I wouldn't even put it into this house just so the dogs and women who run in and out of here could fuck it up. Its hard enough trying to keep toilet paper in the house and stash my soap and lotion. Broken promises and I let myself down for not planning ahead and having a back up plan.

🤦🏽 doing it myself is easier said than done although I have no problem doing it Alone.

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mamaways
Shanel Love·Мама сына (7 лет)

@db413 @tallyqpons22 no car but we have a car seat, still no bed, and he hasn't upheld his end when it comes to the condition of the house and changing our surroundings. I fell for BS and now I'm stuck until after I heal and can move away.

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shecole
Neenee Gee·Мама дочки (7 лет)

Sometimes you have to do it yourself! I'm being induced tomorrow and I'm still making sure everything is right... Washing clothes....dishes....I hired a cleaning crew....I want my baby girl in a clean household....just like New Years

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shecole
Neenee Gee·Мама дочки (7 лет)

@mamaways girl I have a fiance and still did it all by myself!

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tallyqpons22
Tally·Мама двоих (7 лет, 13 лет)

Things will work out. Like @db413 says have the basics, diapers, wipes, car seat, a few outfits & everything will fall into place. Dont stress too much. U still have some time to go out & get what you can.

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db413
Dani B·Мама двоих (5 лет, 7 лет)

Don't be disappointed. I wasn't prepared either. As long as you have diapers wipes clothes car seat and a bed. Everything else will come.

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