I think I should have some things of my own.... In my house I have NOTHING to myself not even my clothes my oldest daughter is in my closet. Ok I can't even go use the restroom by myself my youngest daughter want to be there on her pot. The food I have on my plate my youngest daughter want my food n hers. So yea my phone is the only piece of me of individuality I have in my house. I love my hubby n kids but my phone is where I can have privacy n don't have to share if I don't want to.

Ok for one he should trust me enough where to know MY phone. N I can change the code anytime I want when I want n how I want. He know me im a open book. What u see is what you get. If he have an issue with not getting into my phone that he should approach me.with. I trust Him enough not to snoop in his phone. If he want to go thru my phone then all he have to do is ask. I'm not hiding nothing nor I know he not. @lucifermommy but if I want to go thru or use his phone I would ask not just pick it up n just use it I think it is rude for me to do it

But if you know his code why can't he know yours? If I was him I would think you were hiding something if you all a sudden changed your code after you saw I knew it. You should trust him to give you your privacy with your phone. Me and my husband know each other's codes and we never get into each other's phone for that reason.

You two should talk about privacy and asking for permission instead of changing your phone lock...

I agree with @rikki.ferguson and @lucifermommy but I guess each relationship is different but we never have to ask to see each other's phones we just use them. We actually have the same passcode too and I have my fingerprint on his phone. If I had to ask my husband to see his phone I would think something was going on.

@lucifermommy I don't have ANYTHING in my phone that don't need to be there. Think you making more than the point. Clearly he knows that if he already know my code n never brought any thing to my attention. N believe me he would if he saw ANYTHING suspicious. Just the point he already knew my code

@saniyyahhasan I always use a # pin or word pin I understand that you want privacy I have a diary and my sister text a lot of personal things that she may not want my husband to know about it's not about hiding anything it's about having some type of personal space I can care less about what he sees on social media or anything else it's just the principle all of it

@lucifermommy me in my hubby have nothing to hide if he want to look he can but I think out of respect he should ask just like I ask him to use his phone at times. But I think it's just out of respect he should have asked. I don't snoop in his phone even though I known his code since we got married out of respect I don't just pick up his phone n use it

@gnelle good idea. I just changed it from a pattern to a code bcuz my oldest daughter saw me put my pattern code in.

@saniyyahhasan that is completely understandable I have a app lock on my phone so if my kids or my husband wants to use my phone to make a call they're more than welcome but my apps are locked with a different passcode

Sounds kind of immature to me. Me and my husband have known each other's passwords since we got together. Never changed them. If you have nothing to hide then why have a secret lock especially since you know his.

Yea but I want some kind of privacy in this house if not in the rest room atleast on my phone. I don't mind showing him what's on my phone but atleast ask me to use my phone

Just feel alittle violated. I don't just pick up his phone n use it. I don't answer it when its ringing.

I had a similar situation my husband knows my password but I don't know his password you can't change it immediately you have to wait a Day or 2...lol..# facts

Just curious, but why not know each others codes since you're married?