I have to rant real quick. So, my daughters father has been asking to see samira for the past week. Everytime we settled on a time and place, I'd meet up there only to get a text with an excuse (sorry, working late {store was closed}, messed up my back {for the 5th time in 2 days?}, etc). Well, 2 days ago he messaged and asked to see her. I said sure, we'd be over soon. We left 5 minutes later and got to his place only for him to text me and say he had to reschedule, he ended up having to watch his nieces, blah blah blah. But the funny part is, I was outside his house with Samira. His car was there along with another car. He walks past the window with a chick in tow and they head up to his room and stand in front of the window kissing before the light goes off. Okay, um...you're watching your nieces? Really? Are your nieces hidden inside a ladies mouth and vagina? Fuck out of here with that BS. I don't care if he moves on, but don't keep pushing your daughter off to the side any time some chick comes calling for your bed. It's getting irritating. Really. I moved on, I have a boyfriend, and I still try to make time in my busy schedule to allow adequate visitations. He was doing so good and now keeps giving bullshit excuses. If you don't want to see her, fine. Tell me that. I won't be mad. We'll reschedule for a better day. But what pisses me off is when he lies about it, wastes my time, wastes my daughters time, and pushes her to the side like that. It's infuriating me to no end right now, y'all...
@s_r_z_15, yea you are right and honestly your way of thinking is very mature! Hope he comes to his senses and dedicates a bit of his time to her.
@babyabilene Lol, I wanted to. But I don't want confrontation in front of my daughter. She deserves him in her life, but he needs to get back on track
You should had rang the door bell.. I would so aggravated if I was you.. honestly I give you props for rescheduling so many times
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he pos...
So I made the post not to long ago about not having rights to the name blah blah blah well my cousin made a list of baby names for girls and guess what there it is again last one on the list!!! && she knew from being pregnant with my 2nd how bad I wanted that name if I had a girl!! lord if she ends up naming her daughter the name I wanted I’m still going name my daughter that too just different spelling!! I’ll be that person idc 🤣 like come up with your own unique names not take mine
so yesterday he hugged me, told me it was ok took me to get my nails done, pedicure and brows threaded then to see a movie and dinner and here we are again today.... he asked me to give him a ride home just so he could go out.... without me so i basically was just his ride..,
just last night your ready to invest the time, change and blah blah blah.... my bad im so forgiving and easy to get over on......

This is actually How I came up with my first daughters name. lol.. ????
@babyabilene Thank you. I hope so too. She's recognizing him as her dad now and actively asks for him. So he better.