Never thought I would feel this way but I feel so stuck. I feel like as an over weight single mom that I'm only going to find guys that just want sex, and I'm still too broken after my ex to keep being hurt over and over again. However, I'm so lonely I miss the kissing, the hugging, the holding, I miss being grabbed around the waist from behind, I miss the kisses on the neck and being told they loved me. Part of me doesn't want to give up on dating but I'm also tired of being hurt, I've been single for 7.5 months and just don't know what to do anymore.
@wafflez I have a very high self esteem and am content which is why I've been single for so long but I won't lie I do miss being in a relationship
You gotta love yourself first were your happy an content with just you an your child to be content being single an the thought of letting some guy in kinda just seems like a pain in the arse. Start exploring enjoy you an your kiddle make memories explore your city things will get better you will get more confident an have a whole new self esteem eventually dating will be the last thing on your mind you'll be to busy enjoying life (:
@rainbowbabymom I do love myself and once I get cleared by the doctor I plan on working out I just had a cesarean a week ago
You don't need a man. Love yourself and your kids and work on your weight loss
I'm being induced. Baby has no heartbeat. I am numb and just want to die.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
I feel horrible because i dont want to be pregnant. I mean i was excited and everything when i found out. Mlre so shocked. But as time is going on, i just dont want to be pregnant. Is that an ok thing to say? Although i already love this little girl and thats mostly why i feel bad for feeling that way. Not sure if something is wrong with me or its just im over it now because i feel like this pregnancy is dragging on
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
I feel the same way, that people will judge me for heing so young with a baby or they'll just want sex. Ive been single since july last year, and I miss the affection too but I'd rather know someone wants to be with me and my son in the long run before even considering being with another person