So I'm a failure at being a mom :'(

I'm sorry you feel like that. I'm sure it's not as bad as you think.

Probably not... we all feel like that at times...

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@amelliaholmes1457 my boys don't want me when they wake up in the middle of the night. They want my husband, my mom, or my sister.

@susanbolivarez @embracemthrhd2 ⬆⬆

Eh the way I think about that is you might not spoil them the way your husband and other people do which is perfectly fine that means you're doing something right

We have to remember that we are their mother not their friends I remember when I was younger I didn't run in my mom for everything was all up on her and all that but now that I'm older I love seeing my mom and hugging her she was mean when I was a kid but now that I'm grown I know that it was all for my good

@embracemthrhd2 oh I'm not their friend and neither are they. They punish him just as much. I spoil them a bit more than my husband I think actually. It sucks that I can't help get them back to sleep or whatever because I can't go back to sleep until they do so I'm just a sitting duck listening to them scream.

Oh yeah bed time sucks lol