So my son 3 yrs old, took some candy off the kitchen bar n took off with his sister, 4yrs old. My boyfriend n I r in other room n I say to him they got into to soomething n ran off. B4 I can react he runs in there n take the candy n says u ruined dessert for tonight, which I agreed. But then turns around n gets mad at me for not going back in there n asking why they took the candy n repeating the "no dessert"...really??? N why do i need to do that?? When u already told them...??
Them being so young they’re just getting the ability to truly think about why something was wrong. If only one parent is present there’s no need for the other parent to go in just to tell them the same thing. They’re too young to understand why they’re being told twice when the candy is already gone. If both parents are present then one can say why did you take the candy and the other can say do you understand why mom/dad said that or do you know why you can’t have the candy. It’s always good to get them thinking what’s behind the no.
I agree. No reason to both gang up on them. I obviously followed his lead when they asked for dessert after dinner but i didnt feel the need to go back in there. N i already know why they went in there...theyre kids n like candy...
Your only going to confuse them my in laws say only one person parents at a time and he took control of that situation so it was his time to parent you did right thing my husband doesn’t understand that concept either
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
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I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
I find it pretty hilarious how people who have shown their true colors on social media snake away, delete the posts that outed them and come back on social media like nothing happened. Why do that, you outed yourself, so stay out. We still see you boo boo...
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I just felt that it wasnt necessary n I left it alone. He always says I'm too easy on them n both of us need to discipline the same way. N I disagree. He says he would like to be the save the day parent or have the kids run for him when I discipline.