Had an appt today, I'm 1cm dilated🤔 and had membrane sweep. Dr told me several times that I'll be…

Had an appt today, I'm 1cm dilated🤔 and had membrane sweep. Dr told me several times that I'll be cramping and have mild contractions..but nope had a bit of spotting but no cramps .what the hell is wrong with my body!😭😩 btw it's weird to be sad about not being in pain lol